How To Start Cold-Approach in 2026 (Step-by-Step)

I mentioned the iteration loop — doing this alone is the hard way. Inside my mentoring program, we push you, give feedback, and keep the loop going for 4 months until this becomes a real skill. Apply now: https://go.alex-leon.com/hsm7bk 2026 Live Workshops: 🇩🇪 BERLIN: Sep 11-13 🇵🇱 WARSAW: Sep 18-20 0:00 - Why Most Men Never Start Cold Approach (And Why You Should) 1:43 - Step 1: The Bigger Picture — Why Go Through This Pain? 4:09 - This Is a Life Skill, Not a Cute Little Hobby 7:06 - Step 2: Your Body — External State, Clothing, Internal State 10:39 - What Your Clothes Are Communicating About You 12:45 - Your Internal State: Regulating Emotions at Will 18:34 - Step 3: Social Freedom — Letting Go of What People Think 22:22 - How to Build Social Freedom Step by Step 25:23 - Step 4: The Words — What Are You Actually Gonna Say? 26:40 - The Framework: Hi, Pause, Compliment 29:24 - Step 5: The Iteration Loop — Why One Approach Isn't Enough 31:16 - The Easy Way: Wingmen and Mentors