Lo que quieres no es amor sino ser elegida

👥 Book a one-on-one session with me: https://lauraribas.com/trabaja-conmigo/ ✅ Take my hyperfunctional codependency test: https://lauraribas.com/test/ 💫 Get free access to my course "Break the Pattern of Self-Abandonment and Overfunctioning": https://lauraribas.com/rompe-el-patron/ ❤️‍🩹 Join my HAVE YOURSELF membership with a 15% discount using the coupon code PODCAST. Learn to stop neglecting yourself: https://tenerteatimismo.com/ 💌 Sign up for my newsletter and receive my free letters to improve your relationship with yourself and create the life you want: https://lauraribas.com/empieza-aqui/ 👩‍💻 Here's my website: https://lauraribas.com/ ⭐ Access my meditations for self-esteem for FREE: https://lauraribas.com/meditaciones-a... 📖 Get my book "The Life I Want": https://lavidaquequiero.com/ ❤️ Click here to subscribe to my channel: http://bit.ly/SuscribeLauraYoutube You're looking for love, but what you really want is simply to be chosen. In this episode, I talk about the wound that leads you to confuse validation with connection, to idealize what doesn't exist, and to chase after someone who can't give you what you need. I'll explain why you repeat this pattern, what lies beneath that need to be chosen, and how to begin reconnecting with yourself so you can relate from a place of truth, not lack. #codependency #emotionaldependency #emotionalwounds

Do you despise yourself? The wound of "I'm not enough" or "I don't deserve it."
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Do you despise yourself? The wound of "I'm not enough" or "I don't deserve it."

273 |  Háblame de tu herida y te diré que Pareja Escoges
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273 | Háblame de tu herida y te diré que Pareja Escoges

What Defines a "Man"?  Let's Talk About It...
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What Defines a "Man"? Let's Talk About It...

No Necesitas Ser Elegida: El Poder Magnético de la Auto-Elección - Carl Jung
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No Necesitas Ser Elegida: El Poder Magnético de la Auto-Elección - Carl Jung

You Make Yourself Smaller and Idealize Others to Stay in Your Inner Child
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You Make Yourself Smaller and Idealize Others to Stay in Your Inner Child

Don't obsess over it 👋🏼 - stop focusing your energy on them.
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Don't obsess over it 👋🏼 - stop focusing your energy on them.

Your self-neglect is an adaptive response to trauma, not a character flaw.
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Your self-neglect is an adaptive response to trauma, not a character flaw.

“5 keys to making an AVOIDANT fall in love with you”
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“5 keys to making an AVOIDANT fall in love with you”

El Tao del Amor: Amar sin Forzar y Atraer sin Esfuerzo (Wu Wei) | Taoísmo
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El Tao del Amor: Amar sin Forzar y Atraer sin Esfuerzo (Wu Wei) | Taoísmo

7 Psychological Keys to Being Seen as a Luxury | Nilda Chiaraviglio
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7 Psychological Keys to Being Seen as a Luxury | Nilda Chiaraviglio

Deja de esforzarte para que te quieran
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Deja de esforzarte para que te quieran

Así es cómo desarrollas amor propio | Deja de odiarte y aprende a quererte a ti misma
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Así es cómo desarrollas amor propio | Deja de odiarte y aprende a quererte a ti misma

UNTIL YOU DO THIS, YOU WON'T GET CHOSEN; ONLY FROM THAT POINT ON DOES EVERYTHING CHANGE.
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UNTIL YOU DO THIS, YOU WON'T GET CHOSEN; ONLY FROM THAT POINT ON DOES EVERYTHING CHANGE.

How to Heal the Need to Be Chosen (And Become Unforgettable) | Carl Jung
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How to Heal the Need to Be Chosen (And Become Unforgettable) | Carl Jung

LO QUE SIENTO ES AMOR O APEGO?
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LO QUE SIENTO ES AMOR O APEGO?

Break away from your docile, "good girl" profile, which betrays you.
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Break away from your docile, "good girl" profile, which betrays you.

Anxious Attachment: You idealize the person who DOES NOT CHOOSE you for this REASON.
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Anxious Attachment: You idealize the person who DOES NOT CHOOSE you for this REASON.

The wound of rejection: not feeling chosen | Naked Psychology | Season 4 Episode 3
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The wound of rejection: not feeling chosen | Naked Psychology | Season 4 Episode 3

How to Stop Suffering from Lack of Reciprocity
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How to Stop Suffering from Lack of Reciprocity

It's not self-love, it's self-sabotage with Walter Riso | Season 6 Episode 21 The Magic of Chaos
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It's not self-love, it's self-sabotage with Walter Riso | Season 6 Episode 21 The Magic of Chaos