『黙る力』賢い人ほど議論しない7つの理由/論破で人間関係は悪化するので注意しよう
"Are arguments and debating really that necessary?" We'll answer that question. Somehow, due to the popularity of TV and social media, there's a trend of enjoying arguments and debating. If anything, arguments and debating have a negative impact on human relationships. This is because the situation isn't one in which a proper argument can be had. In fact, the smarter the person, the less likely they are to pay attention to them. They stay quiet and act in their own way. I've explained the key points here. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ -- Watch exclusive videos that address family, parent-child, and couple concerns, plus receive daily words of insight. Click here for YouTube membership ▶ / @cocoyowa ▼Table of Contents▼ 00:00 Today's Theme 00:34 ① Grudges Remain 02:26 ② Favors Are Gained No. 04:08 ③ It's likely to lead to embarrassment. 06:04 ④ Winning an argument won't change the other person. 07:42 ⑤ It actually worsens the relationship. 09:53 ⑥ It increases resentment. 11:52 ⑦ It's likely to lead to mocking behavior. 14:14 Summary: Don't force yourself to ignore them. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ "Coco Magazine" is a consultation and learning service. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Coco Magazine ⇒ A service where you can learn more about human relationships and get advice] An exclusive e-book is also available. If you'd like to learn with Ryota, please check it out. For more details, please visit: https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/8557/in... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Sign up for free and receive heartwarming words at least twice a month] Get a free exclusive article on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. For more details, please see: https://coco-letter.theletter.jp/post... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ • 【今すぐやめるべき】賢い人ほど人間関係で避ける7つの言動/トラブルにつながりやすいポ... • 【大人の知恵】賢い人ほど黙っている、口外しない7つのこと/心に秘めた方が安心なこととは? • 【納得】賢い人ほど他人に無関心な理由7選/どうでもいい人たちに振り回されない秘訣とは? ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books ━━━━━━━━ ━━━━━━━ ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ★Click here for his new book, "The Book of the Friendly Lone Wolf" https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B0FJWV1G5Z ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Social Media Accounts and Blog ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●Ryota's Lifestyle and Column Blog https://brweb.jp/ ●A Blog to Help Highly Sensitive People and Highly Sensitive People Live Better [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Learn from the Morning) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Talks about Lifestyle, Lifestyle, and Mental Health) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief Profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. He is a licensed mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, and has acquired interpersonal skills from working in manufacturing and teaching for over 15 years. He also leverages his university studies of music healing, psychology, and ethics to start a counseling business. He currently writes and communicates, primarily about interpersonal issues. ●Click here for detailed profile information https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is dedicated to discussing your concerns and solving them from the perspective of a counselor and advisor. Thank you for your understanding. Disclaimers and other information are also listed in the channel description. Please take a look. Thank you for your support. #SmartPeople #Relationships #Discussion

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