【家でだけ癇癪】｜「安心してる証拠ですね」で終わらせないで｜年長さんのSOSサイン3選

Children who only have tantrums at home are sometimes told, "That's a sign they feel safe." 🎁 A book on how to transform a child who's well-behaved at daycare but acts out at home—from a "Aaaargh!" to a smiling "Mommy, listen..."—is available here: ▷https://www.agentmail.jp/lp/r/23285/1... At daycare, they say, "There's no problem," yet at home, they cry, get angry, and scream. They explode just at the mention of "Time for a bath." You don't really want to be angry. You just want to greet them with a smile and a "Welcome home," but every day you live in fear, trying not to step on your child's landmines. At night, do you find yourself blaming yourself, thinking, "Am I a bad parent?" These outbursts at home might be an SOS signal from their heart and brain, telling them, "I can't keep going anymore." This video explains tantrums in older preschoolers from the perspective of the mind and brain, using three signs: ✔ A sign that they've pushed themselves too hard outside and are exhausted at home ✔ A sign that they're sensitive to their mother's voice and facial expressions and have gone into defensive mode ✔ A sign that they can only express their feelings through tantrums "It's okay if they can express their feelings at home," Even if you're told that, if it's causing you distress, you don't have to just endure that pain. We hope this video will help you avoid getting caught up in your child's tantrums and help you find the right way to interact with your child right now ✨ ⏰Timestamp⏰ 00:00 Are children who only have tantrums at home just feeling safe? 01:17 Tantrums only at home might be a cry for help 02:19 Why my child's tantrums changed in 3 weeks 03:49 The difference between "being able to express feelings" and "not being able to control them" 06:01 Three SOS signs of a child who only has tantrums at home 06:51 Sign ① They try too hard outside and run out of energy at home 08:39 Sign ② They go into defense mode when their mother's voice or facial expression hits them 10:42 Sign ③ They can only express their feelings through tantrums 12:51 Summary of SOS signs of a child who only has tantrums at home 13:41 Small changes when tantrums turn into words 14:07 A real story of a kindergarten girl who actually changed 14:48 The importance of noticing small SOS signs before an explosion 15:13 Something more important than the right way to talk to them 16:17 Gift Book Announcement 🎁Free Gift for a Limited Time Only! Before Your Child's Tantrums Only at Home! A Book That Reveals How to Change Your Child's Shouts into Smiling "Mommy, Listen..." https://www.agentmail.jp/lp/r/23285/1... 📕This book covers: ✔ The Real Reason Why Children Who Are "No Problems" at Preschool Become Unruly at Home ✔ The Mechanism of the Mind and Brain that Switches Between "Striving and Tension Mode" Outside and "Safety & Release Mode" at Home ✔ Your Child's SOS Behind Constant Movement, Quick Anger, and Unruly Behavior ✔ How to Nurture Your Child's Confidence Through Praise, Not Just Focusing on "Success" ✔ How to Transform Your Frustration into Parent-Child Reassurance Without Blaming Yourself This book summarizes these points. From daily struggles to stop tantrums after they start, why not notice the small SOS signals before they explode, and gradually change your parent-child conversations? ▼Free Download Here https://www.agentmail.jp/lp/r/23285/1... Get hints to change your daily routine of bracing yourself for another outburst, through videos and a book. 📚Story Author (Mika's Mom) "Parent Training: Understanding How to Raise Highly Sensitive Children (HSC)" 🧑‍🏫Instructor Introduction Developed by: Yoshino Kayoko, PhD in Neuroscience Developmental Science Communication Trainer: Yamasaki Umi For mothers dealing with children who are secretly sensitive and only have tantrums at home, we teach how to cultivate the ability to judge for yourself how to communicate and interact with your child, based on the mechanisms of child mental and brain development. I myself have experienced the challenges of raising a child who was fine outside the home but had severe tantrums only at home. Based on that experience, I believe it's important to focus not just on a child's behavior, but on nurturing the foundation of their mind and brain through parenting. Currently, I support mothers struggling with raising sensitive children from the perspective of developmental science communication, which has been proven effective by over 7500 parent-child pairs. I would be very happy if you subscribe to my channel and give me a thumbs up 😊 Instagram   / umi.yamasaki_mama2525_   #TantrumsOnlyAtHome #TantrumsInPreschool #GoodChildAtPreschool #UnrulyAtHome #SensitiveChild #HSCParenting #HiddenSensitivity #ReluctanceToGoToSchool #AnxietyAboutElementarySchool #DevelopmentalScienceCommunication