【絶対にやめてください】子供に「絶縁」される親が必ずやっている5つの悪習慣

Why do children quietly distance themselves from their parents? What if your "good intentions" could be the cause of this estrangement? If you don't realize this, it could be irreversible in your old age. [Video Summary] "My child has become cold." "They've been contacting me less recently." If you feel this way, it's no coincidence. In this video, based on the teachings of Kobo Daishi Kukai, we realistically unravel five bad habits that parents who are estranged from their children unconsciously continue, one by one. This is not a sermon. It's not too late to learn these "final corrections" to avoid loneliness in your later years. What you'll learn in this video ・Why "doing things for you" can drive children into a corner ・The structure of parent-child estrangement created by ingratitude ・Why they stop answering the phone ・The real reason why the entire family distances themselves ・The final lifestyle chosen by parents who cannot be abandoned by their children Kukai taught. Love and attachment are similar but completely different. Only parents who understand this difference are able to enjoy a quiet and peaceful retirement. [Question for viewers] Have you ever felt that it was good to have some distance between you and your child? Or, Is there an incident that you think served as a negative example? Please share your experiences in the comments section, to the extent you feel comfortable. Your experiences may help someone with the same concerns. [References/Sources] The teachings of Kobo Daishi and Kukai Buddhist thought (attachment, worldly desires, and the three poisons) The concept of "love and letting go" in esoteric Buddhism *This video reconstructs Kukai's teachings in the light of modern parent-child relationships, making them applicable to real life. [Recommended Related Videos] If you watched this video, we also recommend the following:・When looking at people, look at their faces first    • 裏切る人は顔でわかる｜顔の“ここ”を隠す人に要注意｜空海の教えで人を見抜く   ・Why cheaters get the better of you    • 【努力は無駄？】なぜ誠実な人ほど苦しむのか｜因果応報と心の法則   ・Even family members should cut off ties    • これ言われたら、家族であっても縁を切るべき3つのサイン【空海の教え】   #Kukai #Buddhism #Parent-child relationships #Old age #Loneliness #Estrangement #Letting go of children #Letting go of attachments #The second half of life #Relationship worries