Is EVERYONE loving MEAN BEHAVIOR?! 💔 - and why it's so hard to be kind in this society...

Did you ever do an act of kindness for someone, but instead of appreciating you, they stop taking you serious and lose their respect towards you? 💗 Would you consider yourself a kind person or has this world hardened your shell? Being a kind person seems to be more complicated than ever. When you don't get anything in return but get taken for granted instead. When people feel superior towards you because somehow being "mean" is trending on tiktok. And to be honest, watching movies like "Mean Girls" or "Camp Rock" or simply Disney villains growing up explains it all. We learned early that being a bit mean or unpredictable gets you respect and admiration. And things go even deeper than that: In this storytelling video, we go back to the 1950s, to discuss how soft and kind behavior was expected of women and how that is sparking conflict in society and social media right now. 💗 I'm explaining the latest TikTok trends and aesthetics and how we can even find these concepts in modern (toxic) dating cukture 00:00 did we lose kindness? 02:10 being mean is trending 03:13 dating: Bad Boy vs. Good Guy 04:40 the "cool girls" in movies 05:59 gender roles in the 1950s 09:07 how to reclaim kindness If you're reading this, you are an amazing person and I appreciate your kindness and positive influence in this world! It could never be a weakness! 💗💗 This video is created for entertainment purposes only. Any resemblance to real people is purely coincidental. All concepts and commentary are my own thoughts and ideas. Similarities to other creators' content are unintentional. All video clips and images included in this essay are used for commentary, analysis, and educational discussion. In accordance with German citation law (Zitatrecht, § 51 UrhG), only the amount of material necessary to support my commentary has been used. All rights to the images, music, clips, and other materials used belong to their respective owners