Clean With Me While We Talk About Why I Do All The Laundry In My House

Today we are folding laundry and having a real conversation about what it means to be fully in at home. Not as a helper. As a partner. I took over all the laundry in our house because our family needed it and I had the skills to do it. Simple as that. But while I fold I want to talk about something that does not get said enough. A man who shows up at home does not do it because he was asked. He does it because he sees what needs to be done and he does it. We also talk about something I want every husband to sit with. If your wife has stopped asking you for help around the house that silence is not peace. That is the same feeling I got when my coach stopped coaching me. It meant he stopped believing in me. You do not want your wife to feel that way. I also get into the systems I built around laundry that make our whole family run smoother. How I set my wife Charlotte up for a friction free morning every single week. How I am already teaching my daughters to build their own routines. And why I believe every man needs to stop thinking about his home as somewhere he helps out and start thinking about it as something he owns. This is for the man who wants to be intentional. This is for the woman who wants to share this with him.