013 - The Narcissistic ABUSE CYCLE - Narcissism in the Workplace - Part 2

Welcome back to the channel. In this video, which is part two of my mini-series on Narcissism in the Workplace, I'll be discussing the Narcissistic Abuse Cycle. I'll cover the following four stages you can expect, together with insights on the 'red flags' to look out for in narcissistic workplace abuse: 🖤 Love bombing 🖤 Devaluation 🖤 Discard 🖤 Hoover This series will be a bit different to my recent videos. I have decided to take the training I gave hundreds of HR professionals a year ago on 'Narcissism in the Workplace' and break it down into four separate videos. So make sure you subscribe and hit that notification bell so you don’t miss the rest of the series. Since childhood, narcissism has woven its insidious way through my life with family members, partners, and bosses. I’ve discussed my workplace bullying in detail in previous videos; I’ll leave links below. About 15 years ago, I wanted to understand what was happening with this personality type. I’ve been investigating and researching narcissism in all its forms ever since. Because of my extensive knowledge, I now teach therapists, healthcare workers and HR professionals about narcissism, primarily how it manifests in the workplace. I hope this series helps others to realise what narcissism is, who it affects and how to identify it before the damage is done. As with most things, awareness is paramount. As I discuss in the video, I have a free factsheet that goes along with this series. To claim yours, visit: https://jobanks.net/narcissism-in-the... 00:46 - Introduction/Recap of Part One 01:38 - Agenda 02:37 - Disclaimer 03:07 - The Abuse Cycle 03:26 - Love Bombing Phase of Narcissistic Abuse 07:25 - Love Bombing Red Flags 09:31 - Devaluation Phase of Narcissistic Abuse 13:09 - Devaluation Red Flags 18:16 - Discard Phase of Narcissistic Abuse 19:45 - Discard Red Flags 20:37 - Hoover Phase of Narcissistic Abuse 21:44 - Hoover Red Flags 23:13 - The Wrap Up 23:50 - FREE Narcissism in the Workplace Factsheet 23:59 - What Next? 25:08 - Outtro #narcissism #narcissist #narcissmawareness #narcissisticrecovery #narcissistsurvivor MENTIONED IN VIDEO: ❤️ FREE 'Narcissism in the Workplace' Factsheet: https://jobanks.net/narcissism-in-the... ❤️ Is My Boss a Narcissist? Narcissism in the Workplace Part 1:    • 012 - Is my BOSS (or co-worker) a NARCISSI...   OTHER VIDEOS ON NARCISSISM & BULLYING ❤️ '5 Reasons Why Bullies Bully' video:    • 004 - Discover 5 Surprising Reasons Why BU...   ❤️ '7 Signs Your Boss or Co-worker Is Sabotaging You':    • 001 - 7 Clear Signs Your BOSS or Co-worker...   ❤️ '5 Signs Your Boss is a Bully:    • 002 - 5 Signs Your Boss is a BULLY (Unders...   ❤️ 'I Was Bullied by My Boss':    • 007 - 3 Valuable Lessons I Learned from Be...   MY WEBSITE: https://jobanks.net CONTACT ME: https://jobanks.net/contact ONLINE TRAINING: https://what-next.teachable.com FREEBIES: https://linktr.ee/jobanks SHOP: https://www.etsy.com/shop/Inspiration... SOCIAL MEDIA: ❤️ LinkedIn -   / jo-banks-738b4412   ❤️ Instagram -   / jobanks.coach   ❤️ Facebook -   / jobanks.net   ❤️ Twitter -   / jobankscoach   FTC Legal Disclaimer - Some links in my videos' description box may be affiliate links, meaning I will make a commission on sales you make through my link. This is at no extra cost to you to use my links/codes; it's just one more way to support me and my channel!

012 - Is my BOSS (or co-worker) a NARCISSIST?  Narcissism in the Workplace - Part 1
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012 - Is my BOSS (or co-worker) a NARCISSIST? Narcissism in the Workplace - Part 1

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