The Secret Meaning Behind Your Fantasies with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

What do your fantasies really say about you? Go to https://regain.us/alaynajoy to get 10% off your first month of couples therapy! (Sponsored by Regain) vvv OPEN DESCRIPTION! vvv In this season finale, Dr. Justin Lehmiller— social psychologist, Kinsey Institute researcher, and author of Tell Me What You Want joins Alayna to unpack the science of sexual fantasies: why we have them, what they mean (or don’t), and how they can actually strengthen relationships. FOR THE EXTENDED EPISODE join the Patreon community here ✨:   / alaynajoy   Connect with Justin: Sex and Psychology Podcast: https://sexandpsychology.com/podcasts Instagram:   / justinjlehmiller   Tell Me What You Want: https://amzn.to/4bSVT2j Upcoming study abroad courses in Iceland: https://sexualhealthalliance.com/2025... Spain: https://sexualhealthalliance.com/2025... Don’t forget to follow the podcast on social media:   / sleepingaroundpod   and subscribe for more episodes. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a comment and share it with someone who might benefit from our discussion!

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