An acting class, a hidden identity, and a moment I still regret.

In 1970, while studying theatre at the University of South Carolina, I was paired with a quiet acting student named Fred for a scene from Teach Me How To Cry. He confided something to me that, at the time, was almost unheard of. Two years later I saw Fred again while eating at the International House of Pancakes. I froze. I didn’t say hello. I didn’t acknowledge her. I didn’t know what to say — and I’ve thought about that moment ever since. This story is about acting, grief, identity, the early days of gender transition in America, and the lesson I learned about empathy and courage. Most of all, it’s about a person I hope found happiness. 🎭 🩷 THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT! 🩷 🎭 🧋 BUY ME A COFFEE 🧋→ https://buymeacoffee.com/jilldaltonnyc I drop a new video every Sunday. Thanks for stopping by. Your support of my channel means the world to me. Thank you. Please like, subscribe, and hit the notification button. Be sure to HYPE the video. Leave your comments. I love reading and responding. xoxo Jill CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro 00:56 Big Dreams of being an actress. 01:47 Childhood loss 02:32 No emotions allowed. 02:52 Why acting? 03:21 Limited options for career choices 03:46 First acting role 04:36 Chaotic homelife 04:43 First acting partner at USC 05:38 Rehearsing with Fred 07:37 Fred’s secret revealed 08:53 Performing Teach Me How to Cry 09:24 Meeting Fred two years later at the IHOP 11;13 My regret. 12:04 Questions for you 12:32 Your questions and comments 28:22 Thank you 28:47 Outro Sound 🎼 🎺 🎙️🛎️🔊📣 Epidemic Sound ES_Watching the Stars - OTE cat-meow-8-fx-306184 from free sound-community Pixabay LET’S CONNECT ON SOCIAL Facebook:   / jill.dalton3   Instagram:   / iamjilldalton   FIND ME HERE Website: https:www.jilldaltonnyc.com IMDB: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0198298/ The Performing Arts Legacy Project: https://performingartslegacy.org/dalton/ It’s not personal. It’s showbiz. Acting is a journey, not a destination. Showbiz! Ah, the glamor. Nothing is fair in love, war, or showbiz!

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