അഹങ്കാരി Ancy Nusaifa കുട്ടികളെ കുറിച്ച് പറയുന്നത് കേട്ടാല്‍ നിങ്ങൾ ഞെട്ടും

Are you a woman who is not a mother? How do you label that? Do you know a woman who is not a mother? What term do you use for her, and is there implied judgement in it? This is a space where words matter. @AncyNusaifa    / ancynusaifa   In recent years, the terms ‘child-free’ and ‘childless’ have become frequently used to describe women without children, with each carrying their own connotations. The term child-free describes a woman who has made the decision not to have children. In most cases, they have evaluated the pros and cons of having children and determined that having children is not for them. Essentially, they are child-free by choice. On the other hand, the term childless describes a woman who wanted to have children but was not able to, due to circumstance. This can happen for a number of reasons, including infertility, the loss of a child, or perhaps their life never followed a path that enabled them to have children. The decision is out of their hands. As you can see, there is a distinction between being child-free and childless – and the difference matters. We live in a very pronatalist society and some people judge those – whether childless or child-free – who don’t conform to that. What others should bear in mind is that regardless of the terms women use, there isn’t a one-size-fits-all. It is a complex and multi-faceted issue and all the stories of how women came to be childless or child-free are as individual as the women themselves.