Avoidant Shutdown: Why Your Logic Feels Like An Attack to Them

WORK WITH US 1-1 Coaching: https://www.simplytogether.co/coaching/ QUIZ Which Type of Avoidant Did You Fall For? - https://www.simplytogether.co/is-your... PROGRAMS Attach An Avoidant - https://www.simplytogether.co/attach-... Get Him Back - https://www.simplytogether.co/get-him... Get Her Back - https://www.simplytogether.co/get-her... Rebuild Your Relationship - https://simplytogether.teachable.com/... ▶️ WATCH NEXT Avoidant Reveals: What Makes An Avoidant Choose You    • Avoidant Reveals: What Makes An Avoidant C...   You've done your best to be calm and communicate your point sincerely and logically. And yet, your avoidant partner immediately gets defensive and declares you're attacking them. What the heck just happened and how do you even talk to them about anything?? ⏭️ CHAPTERS 00:00 - Intro 03:21 - Reminds Them of An Ex / Parent 04:43 - Resentment From Repeated Attempts 05:38 - Your Point Is Valid, But It’s A Sensitive Point 06:27 - They Can Feel Defenseless & Patronized 07:43 - Power vs Safety 08:55 - What You Should Do Instead 09:15 - Relate to Them As An Equal 10:34 - Leading With "I" Statements