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In essence, narcissists are also victims of one or more other abusers. Narcissists, in addition to lacking morality, also lack the wisdom to realize that: Success is not money, material things or fame for oneself, but success is the values ​​that people contribute to the community, especially moral values. Successful people are not people who only have superior intelligence and willpower like notorious genociders, but must be people who have all 3 ROOTS: INTELLIGENCE - MORALITY AND WILLPOWER. Happiness is not about satisfying one's own needs and being willing to trample on the needs of others, especially the need to be loved and respected by others, but happiness is when people reach the highest level of Maslow's expanded hierarchy of needs, where at that level, people have the ability to think deeply, know how to reflect on life, overcome their own ego and find peace of mind, that is, reach enlightenment according to Buddhist concepts. When people feel fulfilled and happy from within, they will no longer feel anxious and insecure, they will not need to attack, criticize, accuse or blame others, nor use tricks to put others down, to feel that they are valuable like the way narcissists do. At the same time, they also have the ability to contribute to life in a way full of wisdom, morality and determination without expecting anything in return. 00:00 Introduction 01:32 The Nature of Narcissism 03:08 The Consequences of Narcissism 10:24 Messages With at least 5/10 of the following signs, we can be classified as narcissistic, including: 1. Always thinking that we are talented and important; 2. Believing that we are special and only other special people or people in high social classes can understand and cooperate with us; 3. Always demanding attention and admiration from everyone; 4. Thinking that we have the right and forcing everyone to comply with all our requests and opinions. 5. Extremely sensitive to criticism, easily angry when our opinions are not followed. 6. Lack of empathy, not wanting to recognize and not wanting to identify the feelings and needs of others. 7. Inflated self-image, having an illusion about one's own talent, success, and beauty. 8. Always looking for opportunities to take advantage of others, to gain advantages for oneself in relationships. 9. Having an arrogant, haughty attitude and behavior. 10. Often jealous of others or believing that others are always jealous of them. There are two main types of narcissism: Overt narcissism, with narcissistic personality traits, expressed openly, clearly and easily noticed by everyone, such as extroversion, boldness, self-confidence, attractive appearance, sensitivity to criticism, ruthlessness and a careless attitude. On the contrary, wounded narcissism, although having all the characteristics of the narcissistic personality type, is expressed extremely secretly such as: being introverted, shy, angry, secretly jealous, oversensitive, suspicious, always defensive, evasive, unforgiving, anxious and often showing boredom, disappointment, hurt. However, most narcissists will be a narcissistic type that is a mixture of overt narcissism and covert/wounded narcissism. Disclaimer: Video content: (i) is for educational purposes only; (ii) this is a personal opinion, based on knowledge imparted by foreign psychologists, not intended to refer to any individual in the world in general or in Vietnam in particular; and (iii) may be completely wrong; (iv) all images used in the video are for illustrative purposes only. Please do not use the video content to attack, criticize any individual/organization or use it for purposes other than learning. P/s: This YouTube channel is not for profit, please consider contacting the owner to remove copyrighted content before giving away sticks ^_^ 🎧 Ai Ky - Narcissism Podcast: https://anchor.fm/aiky-narcissism 👤 Ai Ky - Narcissism Facebook Group:   / 1912144132318018   #aiky #luatsunguyen #tamlyhoc #nguoiaiky #giaiphapchoaiky #chuabenhaiky