Escaping Narcissism : Xander & Vanessa - The Ultimatum Queer Love

Personality type & relationship consultant analyses Xander, Vanessa and Yoly on Netflix's The Ultimatum Queer Love based on personality types and cognitive functions. If you would like to find out your personality type and understand you and your relationships, book a session with the link below :) https://calendly.com/drcherietypes https://linktr.ee/drcherietypes In this video, I also elaborate on the following personality types and how their cognitive functions correlate with relationship chemistry and behaviour: Fi introverted Feeling, Fe extraverted Feeling, Si introverted Sensing, Se extraverted Sensing, ISFJ, ESFP, ISFP 00:00 Intro 00:41 Enabler of Narcissism 02:38 Enabler vs Saviour 02:58 "Unconditional" Love = No Boundaries 03:34 Playing Victim then Hero 05:10 Why Enabler is Toxic 05:46 Xander's Soft Power 06:41 Long Term Harmony 08:35 Why Xander Loved Vanessa 11:28 Why Xander Couldn't Leave 13:01 Why Xander Fell for Yoly 14:43 Why Xander Chose Yoly 16:28 Sudden Change = Red Flag 19:07 S Hero is the Most Observant 20:55 Book a Session #16personalities #theultimatum #relationshipadvice #drcherie #relationshiptherapy #couplestherapy #functionstack #cognitivefunctions #queerlove #escapenarcissism Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counsellor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion on the channel. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Viewers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action.

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