Stop Writing My Husband Love Letters, Boundaries in Marriage, and P*rn in the Bedroom

Every affair started as "no big deal." Sending a reel. Grabbing lunch. Writing a letter. The line between honoring your covenant and crossing is blurred by a hundred small choices that each felt fine in the moment. In this conversation, Josh and Katie get specific about what protecting your marriage actually looks like in practice, not as a list of rules, but as a posture. They walk through workplace dynamics, friendship lines, what p*rn does to intimacy, and what to do when your spouse pushes back on any of this. The goal isn't paranoia. It's clarity — knowing where the line is before you're anywhere near it. In this episode: The workplace boundaries they actually hold, and why "it's just lunch" is never just lunch Why the greatest protection in a marriage isn't a list of rules, it's connection What sharing reels, prophetic words, and personal updates with the opposite gender have in common The case against p*rn in marriage What zero defensiveness actually looks like when a spouse raises boundaries The two-prong approach to covenant: nothing hidden, and fighting for real connection