You raised them and then they turned on you. A message to alienated moms. 

🌿Parental Alienation Guide + Trauma Bond Guide +book 1:1 here: https://stan.store/shawnkhowerton If you’re an alienated mom, this video is for you. You were the one in the trenches—raising the kids, running the household, showing up day after day—while your marriage quietly collapsed and the narrative about you was being rewritten behind your back. And then, when you finally fell apart from betrayal, stress, and emotional abuse, your ex stepped in like “father of the year” and used your pain as proof that you were the problem. In this long-form message, I’m talking about the brutal reality many mothers face: kids aligning with the powerful parent, loyalty being performed, cruelty being normalized, and adult children making choices that devastate the very mother who raised them. I also talk about the part nobody wants to admit—waiting for a Hallmark “aha moment” can keep you trapped in suffering for years, and you do not have unlimited time on this earth to spend your life begging people to see your goodness. This isn’t about perfect parenting. This is about accountability, truth, and deciding what kind of life you’re going to live now. If you’re living this, you’re not alone—and you’re not required to spend the rest of your life paying the price for someone else’s cruelty. If this hits you, leave a thoughtful comment (not a drive-by), and share it with a mom who needs to hear it. ~ Coach Shawn #narcissisticabuse #smearcampaign #divorcinganarcissist Connect with me here: 👇🏼   / shawnkhowerton     / shawnkhowerton   https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnkhowerto...