22 Social Behaviors that Attract

After researching several books, podcasts, and YouTube channels, I came up with this list of the most important social behaviors that help attract people to you. Adopting these as habits takes practice but is well worth it. ⚬ Why social skill matters ⚬ Be authentic ⚬ Don't say "sorry" unless you did something wrong ⚬ Smile more ⚬ Eye contact ⚬ Hello old friend ⚬ Active listening ⚬ Put the spotlight on them ⚬ Convert questions to statements ⚬ Comm-YOU-nication ⚬ Thread cutting, self-engagement, open-ended questions ⚬ Prosaic with passion ⚬ Premature "we" ⚬ Responding to compliments ⚬ Parenthetical compliment ⚬ Use their name ⚬ Track minor details ⚬ Insinuate the quality you want ⚬ Ask them for a favor ⚬ Don't get defensive SOURCES ‣ "How to Talk to Anyone 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships" by Leil Lowndes 2003 ‣ "Atomic Habits" by James Clear ‣ "What Every Body is Saying" by Joe Navarro ‣ "Art of Seduction" by Robert Green Instagram - I make really cool art!   / mvisit3