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Have you ever felt "shocked" but kept saying "everything's fine"? In this video, starting from a true incident that happened in my office, we analyze a very dangerous psychological mechanism: the tendency to confuse the extraordinary (pain, abuse, pathological jealousy) with the ordinary. Often, just as happens in certain couple or family dynamics, we end up justifying unacceptable behavior by raising our tolerance threshold for suffering. But our bodies don't lie: anxiety, gastritis, and back pain are often the physical price we pay for an ego that thinks it can handle any burden. In this video, you'll discover: ✅ The difference between normal and healthy. ✅ How emotional shock alters our perception of reality. ✅ Why arguing about incidents with a narcissist is pointless (and what you should focus on instead). ✅ The role of the psychological immune system: denial and guilt. Remember: pain doesn't justify everything. Opening your eyes is the first step to stop embellishing your emotional "prison." 0:00 A clinical case: the shock in the waiting room 1:20 When jealousy becomes control 2:45 Normal vs. Healthy: the price to pay 4:00 The therapist as judge? The true purpose of therapy 5:50 Post-traumatic stress disorder and somatization 7:15 The instability of systems: the example of Wales 8:50 Anxiety or fear? Recognizing the Threat 11:40 AM Addiction to the Emotional Swing 1:50 PM The Psychic Immune System: Denial and Justification 6:00 PM The Daughter Test: The Truth We Don't Want to See 9:00 PM Why Others Can't Change (and Magical Thinking) 10:00 PM Don't Talk About the Episode, Talk About the Dynamics 10:10 PM When the Social Mask Falls Away ✅ Subscribe to the EMOTIONAL GROWTH program - LET'S MEDITATE and GROW    / @goffredobordesepsicologo   https://www.youtube.com/@goffredobord... ✅ Goffredo Bordese, Psychologist, Psychotherapist, Counselor, and Coach 📌 Subscribe to the channel so you don't miss upcoming videos. 📌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEWSLETTER to stay up to date https://goffredobordese.substack.com/ 📢 Share this video with anyone who might understand this message. 💬 Leave a comment with your thoughts and join the conversation. My channel was created to give everyone the opportunity to explore, get to know themselves, and increase their awareness with simple tools, going beyond "traditional" psychology based on theory, but also adding essential tools like body awareness, breathing, and all those tools that nature silently offers us. 📧 If you'd like to contact me: [email protected] 𝚿🧠🤍 Are you a young psychologist looking for support in your first steps? [email protected] ✅ WEBSITE www.goffredobordese.it -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- VISIT MY WEBSITE: ➡️✅​ https://www.goffredobordese.it If you would like a CONSULTATION, contact me at: 📧✅ [email protected] SUBSCRIBE TO MY WHATSAPP CHANNEL: ✅ 🟢🟢 https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaIi... JOIN MY FACEBOOK GROUP: ✅🔵🟡  / 4166254616718650   MI ALSO FIND ON SPOTIFY AND ALL AUDIO PLATFORMS: ✅ AUDIBLE: MEDITATION AND PSYCHOLOGY (GOFFREDO BORDESE): https://amzn.eu/d/cprhaER ✅ SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/2P0cldl... ✅ BOOKS I WOULD RECOMMEND TO A FRIEND: https://amzn.to/3Lg9Xdj ✅ 🟢🟢WHAT MAGNESIUM DO I USE? One with 4 salts, I use this one - https://amzn.to/4pgiBHQ In this video, I share an episode that happened in my office that prompted me to write profound stories to reflect on. Listen to this story to discover what happened and how it can help us better understand human dynamics. I hope this story offers you food for thought and awareness.