You Don't Deserve to Be Happy, Loved (Bad Object)

Watch How Borderline Sees YOU (Intimate Partner)    • How Borderline Sees YOU (Intimate Partner)   Anger at dead parents who install and instill harsh inner critic (superego is part of ego and impairs reality testing). Bad object messaging: 1. You are unlovable 2. You don’t deserve happiness. All people are lovable (number of permutations with 6 billion adults, even serial killers in prison) Happiness is not a desert, it has to be merited and earned But bad object uses introject to generate ANTs (Automatic Negative Thoughts) which are self-sabotaging (self-undermining), self-defeating, self-harmful, self-trashing, and self-destructive. Some people reject happiness and embrace misery. They belong to either of three groups. Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...