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Do you feel a strange sense of bitterness and emptiness washing over you on your way home, even after working hard, meeting people, and finishing all your tasks today? If scrolling through your smartphone feed feels unfulfilled and your heart feels hollow, you might be taking the painkiller of busyness and constantly running away somewhere. In this video, we delve into three existential psychological mechanisms hidden within why the harder we live, the deeper the emptiness we face. Irvin Yalom, a master of existential psychotherapy, revealed that humans constantly create trivial tasks and move busily to avoid the fear of extinction hidden deep within the unconscious. Called ontological avoidance, the more we run away to avoid thinking about the end, the faster the value and meaning of our existence in this very moment are lost. Just as a buffet meal, where you can refill at any time, makes you swallow food hastily rather than savor it, leaving only a hollow sense of fullness, the moment we take our daily lives for granted as if they will last forever, our brains completely cease to deeply sense those precious moments. True emptiness sets in when you fall into the swamp of taking things for granted and fail to sense the voice of a loved one or the preciousness of the day. Existentialist psychologist Rollo May emphasized that death and finitude are the most powerful forces that give life true vitality and meaning. Through today's video, discover the great art of pausing to view the limited meal of life as a one-time opportunity and restore full sensation to the things you take for granted around you. 📍 Lessons Learned from the Video Diagnosing the fundamental cause why emptiness and futility deepen the busier we live Analyzing the painkiller effects of busyness dissected through Irvin Yalom's Theory of Ontological Avoidance Understanding the correlation between an unlimited daily routine and sensory numbness through the buffet metaphor Methods proposed by Rollo May to confront the finitude of life and restore a vivid sense of reality Practical exercises to transform the taken-for-granted into a sensation by fully gazing into the face of the person beside you #Emptiness #OntologicalAvoidance #IrvinYalom #RolloMay #BuffetMetaphor #ExistentialPsychology #Nihilism #BusyModernPeople #MeaningfulLife #PeaceOfMind #RecoveringSelfEsteem #EmotionalFreedom #TwoTokTV