Хикикомори. Страх конфликтов в Японии.

It doesn't matter where you live. Your relationship with your parents is much more important. 01:25 Ito's room is his refuge. What is he protecting himself from? His thoughts reveal him to be a kind but frightened child. Who scared him and why? Those same parents who most likely provide for him. The author didn't pay attention to Ito's source of income, although it is important. Endless games, rare outings to the common table. This is a comfortable, conflict-free zone. Although conflicts, of course, happen. Perhaps they are quite frequent. It's not for nothing that Ito forbade contact with his mother. But most likely, she didn't want it herself, and the source of discord in the family is his successful working father, from whom Ito hides even in his own home. If you can call him one of his own. It's foolish to hide where the source of the threat lives. 04:45 The development of technology, indeed, allows Ryoji to drop out of public life quite comfortably. He's clearly been enjoying himself for these eight years, and we can be happy for him. His mother supports him by being responsible, which makes things easier for Ryoji, although there's not much sign of intelligence on her tired face. So their understanding shouldn't be overestimated. 09:12 I don't know what level of talk therapy is in Japan, but I know Japanese history. It encourages the perception of a person as a function, which encourages the use of medication to treat the psyche, squeezing the function out of a person to the last drop, inhibiting intellectual development. 12:15 Anonymous hikikomori discuss their anonymity and their solution to the problem through primitive coping methods. Some, however, honestly admit to enjoying childish behavior. 14:45 An example of therapy in Japan. A mother is undergoing therapy for her son to ease her conscience. Can you hear her going "mmmmmm"? That's Japan. There, attunement is more important than sincerity. Mom is trying to figure things out. If she continues to investigate, she'll realize she's passed on her conflict-free nature to her son. And the question is: who's the dad? In Japan, families are usually two-parent. 15:45 Stories of fathers murdered by sons are shocking. Accumulated hatred can spill out uncontrollably. Especially in Japanese culture, where murder is historically the norm, people are poor at communicating, and it's difficult to get support from non-relatives due to the general isolation and normalization. 22:00 Good shot. Ryoji reveals himself as an intellectual who actively discusses things. A smart look. Confidence developed through years of persistent reflection. However, the fear of conflict remains unresolved. The gadget saves him from boredom and suppresses hatred. 22:20 About the doll, spot on. And about the sadistic "blackouts" in memory, too. It's rare to get a thorough analysis of the ancestors' personality types. Because of this, it is difficult for the child to understand what is really happening in his life.