5 Signs You’re Still a “Good Girl” (And Not In Your Dominatrix Energy Yet)

Do you still find yourself shrinking, apologising, and dressing to disappear, even though you know you’re meant to be a bold, expressed woman? In this video, I share 5 signs you’re stuck in “good girl” mode instead of owning your dominatrix mindset. We’ll look at how you use makeup, your voice, your style, and your dating habits to either hide or fully express who you are. By the end, you’ll see exactly where you’re still playing small...and how to start showing up as the woman who takes up space, makes choices, and lets herself be seen. You’ll learn: The difference between using makeup to hide vs to express who you are How over‑apologising and softening your words signal “good girl” energy Why shrinking your style and dressing to disappear keeps you from feeling powerful How waiting to be picked on dating apps keeps you passive and reactive Why letting men decide the where and when of dates drains your power—and what to do instead This is for women who are tired of being “nice, acceptable, and small”, and who are ready to express their strong tastes, strong opinions, and strong presence—in how they dress, speak, and date. 🖤 Who I am I’m Anna Laurence, an exotic dancer in a gentleman’s club in London and a coach for women on femininity, sensuality, and body‑based confidence. I help women stop hiding and start showing up fully as who they are. Go further Explore your Next Steps in a call with Anna Laurence: https://lp.annalaurence.com/bookacall... Daily thoughts on Instagram: @annalaurence__________ 💃 Get the Sensual Dance Flow Course: https://lp.annalaurence.com/sensualda... 🙏 Subscribe and enable all push notifications to get more updates​ 🔔 ✅    / @withannalaurence   🙏 Please like, comment on, and share videos too! ♨️ Watch Next ⤵️⤵️ 🧿 Use the Dominatrix Archetype to Become More Feminine and Confident | Femdom Mindset 💎    • Use the Dominatrix Archetype to Become Mor...   🧿 Magnetic Feminine Meditation | Guided Practice to Become Your Most Magnetic Self | 💎    • Magnetic Feminine Meditation | Become Your...   🧿 Women in Business: How Feminine Energy Builds Confidence and Abundance 💎    • Be a More Powerful Woman in Business | Con...   Thanks for Watching 🙏🙏🙏 Suggested Chapters / Timestamps 00:00 – Good girl vs dominatrix: what this video is about 00:13 – Who I am and what I coach 00:42 – What I mean by “good girl” behaviour 01:31 – Overview of the 5 signs 01:43 – Sign 1: Using makeup to hide, not express 03:05 – What dominatrix mindset looks like with makeup 03:38 – Sign 2: Over‑apologising and shrinking your voice 04:44 – How the dominatrix speaks and takes up space 05:39 – Sign 3: Shrinking your style and body with clothes 07:08 – Dressing as a confident, visible woman 08:09 – Sign 4: Letting men pick you on dating apps 09:26 – Why choosing first is a power move 10:27 – Sign 5: Letting men decide the where and when of dates 11:22 – Initiating timing and experiences that feel good for you 12:16 – Final pep talk + like & subscribe Video Keywords: Five signs of people pleasing, stop being the good girl, confidence and healthy personal boundaries, overcoming approval seeking behaviors today, building self respect and confidence, women developing stronger personal boundaries, personal growth through self awareness, confidence mindset for modern women, emotional resilience and self worth, learning assertive communication skills today, women embracing authentic self expression, self confidence through healthy boundaries, personal empowerment and mindset growth, overcoming fear of disappointing others, women building confidence and independence, self worth and emotional wellbeing, personal development for confident living, mindset shifts for self empowerment, authentic confidence in everyday life, emotional intelligence and personal growth, women prioritizing their own needs, confidence habits for lasting growth, self awareness improving life decisions, healthy boundaries creating better relationships, personal transformation through confidence building, women choosing authenticity over approval, strong mindset for personal success. #feminineenergy #femininepower #goodgirl #dominatrix #datingadviceforwomen #feminineembodiment #sensuality