【老後の生き方】孤独への恐怖がすーっと消えるお話。一人暮らしの高齢者がこっそり楽しむ5つの習慣

#Retirement #60s #70s #80s #90s #RetirementDiary [How to Live in Retirement] A Story That Makes the Fear of Loneliness Disappear. 5 Habits that Elderly People Living Alone Secretly Enjoy Have you ever thought something like this? It's the anxiety that when you get older, you'll be left all alone. Many people consider living alone to be the greatest fear of old age. However, when you actually talk to people in their 70s and 80s who live alone, you get unexpected answers. They all say that they feel much more at ease since becoming independent. At first, they were a little lonely, but now they love this time alone more than anything, and many say that their hearts feel much lighter than when they lived with their children and grandchildren. There are far more people who feel this way than we imagine. There's an even more surprising fact. That is, many elderly people who live with their families feel even more lonely. Just because you live with your family doesn't mean that feelings of loneliness disappear. Even living under the same roof, there's no conversation all day, and at night, you spend your time quietly, holding your breath out of consideration for your family. When days like these pile up, you feel an even deeper loneliness than when you're alone. The saying, "The loneliness of being in a crowd is the most terrifying kind of loneliness," is absolutely true. Today, I'd like to talk about the real reasons why people who are enjoying a happy retirement alone rarely talk about. These are five secrets that people who don't feel lonely at all living alone, or who believe that living alone is a rich and wonderful retirement, absolutely don't want to tell you. Knowing this, you should no longer be afraid of living alone. In fact, you might even want to start living alone as soon as possible. Mr. Suzuki, a 76-year-old I met, told me this: "It's been five years since I started living alone, and this is my true life. For the previous 70 years, I lived a life for others." Isn't that surprising? For 70 long years, he lived for others, and only after becoming alone did he finally reclaim his true self. What exactly happened? Many people probably feel anxious imagining living alone. However, in reality, that lifestyle can bring far greater happiness than you might imagine. You're probably wondering what you should do right now to live such a fulfilling life. We'll share the real reasons why some people enjoy a rich retirement and the secrets to living alone. Before we get started, please subscribe to our channel, like this video, and turn on notifications; it would be a great encouragement to us.