Boris Cyrulnik - Quand on tombe amoureux, on se relève attaché

Falling in Love, Getting Up Attached: A Journey Between Love and Attachment Boris Cyrulnik presents his book "When You Fall in Love, You Get Up Attached" (Éditions Odile Jacob). Interview with Sylvie Hazebroucq. Find the book: https://www.mollat.com/livres/3302728... In his book, Boris Cyrulnik, a renowned psychiatrist and figure of resilience, explores the fundamental distinction between love and attachment. While love at first sight is a sudden impulse that cuts us off from the world, attachment is a bond that is formed daily, often unconsciously. Inspired by the work of pediatrician and psychoanalyst John Bowlby, the author explains how our early experiences, particularly the "sensory niches" of child development, are crucial to our ability to build lasting relationships. Through an approach combining neuroscience, ethology, history, and sociology, Boris Cyrulnik offers a clear-eyed assessment of modern society. He highlights the precariousness of emotional bonds in a world where stability is undermined by immediacy and overconsumption. The author particularly highlights the harmful role of screens and the lack of otherness in the development of young people, who grow up in a "gilded prison" and lose the joy of learning. According to him, this culture of urgency and overstimulation, obsessed with success, prevents the development of a secure attachment, essential for connecting with others. Faced with these challenges, Boris Cyrulnik offers concrete ways to "get to work" and relearn how to build relationships. He emphasizes the vital role of speech, which shapes our brains, of reading, and of family stability. For him, it is crucial to reinvent romantic relationships, no longer as a simple fusion, but as a lasting attachment, based on curiosity, effort, and shared construction. 00:00:00 Introduction 00:02:05 Book Presentation 00:05:31 Memories and Personal Influences 00:09:22 Attachment Theory 00:14:41 Sensitive Periods and Resilience 00:19:00 Modernity and Social Bonds 00:25:21 Impact of Cultural Changes 00:32:49 Importance of Speech and Education 00:39:54 The Challenges of Modern Society 00:53:47 Conclusion Music note: © mollat Subtitles automatically generated in French by YouTube. Visit the website: http://www.mollat.com/ Follow the Mollat ​​bookstore on social media: Instagram:   / librairie_mollat   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Librairie.mo... Twitter:   / librairiemollat   Linkedin:   / votre-libraire-mollat   Pinterest:   / librairiemollat   Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/mollat WhatsApp: https://www.whatsapp.com/channel/0029...