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I imagine many of you Cubes feel drained for no reason after meeting people and returning home, even if nothing significant happened, and spend a long time worrying, "Did I do something wrong?" over just a single facial expression or tone of voice. So today, we discussed with #HeoKyuHyung, author of *The Law of Splitting*, why we come to feel responsible for the other person's feelings in relationships. I hope watching today's video gives you time to divide your share—specifically what you can handle and what you can leave for the other person. ☺️ 🧠 Key Points 00:00 Highlights 01:03 Opening 03:25 Human relationships are overwhelming for me; how can I split them? 05:40 How to escape the burden of relationships 06:42 How to say no 09:30 Why do we keep comparing ourselves to others? 11:55 Can we compare in a healthy way? 14:32 Representative relationship patterns based on willpower 18:06 How to rely on others in a healthy way? 20:14 Distinguishing Between Will and Dependence 23:03 Anxious Attachment Types and Avoidant Attachment Types 📕 『The Splitting Rule』 Kyobo Book Centre: https://short.millie.co.kr/hykad2 Yes24: https://short.millie.co.kr/a0cjmt Aladin: https://short.millie.co.kr/9v9068

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