Лекция | Как строить здоровые отношения? | Елена Триандофилова | 24.05.2026 г.

The Monastery Coffee Shop "47" is a modern venue for educational and cultural projects, located on the grounds of the Dormition Metochion of Optina Pustyn in St. Petersburg. The Metochion's majestic architecture and proximity to the Neva River create the perfect context for any event—from a theological discussion to a classical concert. For event planning and rental inquiries, please email us or call us at +7 981 046 5335. 00:00:00 Welcome and Introduction: "How to Build Healthy Relationships?" 00:02:28 Why shouldn't we rely on past negative experiences in relationships? 00:14:35 How can we forgive someone? 00:25:28 What fears arise in premarital relationships? And how can we overcome them? 00:32:39 What is the danger of fornication? 00:38:40 "There's No Hope in God." How Does the Fear of Loneliness Affect Relationships? 00:44:36 How to Recognize and Resist Manipulation? 01:02:30 "I'm Tormented by These Thoughts." Can Sincere Repentance in Confession Wash Away the Sin of Premarital Adultery? 01:12:51 "It's Better Not to Share These Things." What Can and Can't You Talk About with Your Loved One? 01:20:20 How to Forgive Yourself for Past Mistakes? 01:26:08 How to Recognize Emotional Swings in a Relationship? 01:40:15 Why Can't You Start a New Relationship After a Divorce? 01:42:20 How to Pray for Someone Who Has Been Betrayed? 01:46:13 How to Distinguish Love for Your Neighbor from People-Pleasing? 01:48:41 How to distinguish genuine praise from manipulative? 01:50:00 Is being in love a necessary condition for starting a family? Dear brothers and sisters! 🕊️ Our church needs help restoring the covering of three chandeliers. Over the years of service, they have darkened from candle and incense smoke, but their light is a symbol of the light of Christ, illuminating our souls. And every contribution you make is an incorruptible sacrifice for the glory of God and for maintaining the splendor of the Church of the Queen of Heaven. Help restore the former beauty and radiance of the lamps in our monastery's church 🙏 ▪️ How you can help: • You can make a donation at this link: https://clck.ru/3DjHzs • Or send a donation to T-Bank card No. 2200 7009 3416 2123 (to Andrey Anatolyevich M.) with the note "Chandeliers." ▪️ You can leave notes about your loved ones on our website: spb.optina.ru/rites ▪️ We invite workers to the Manor House in the Leningrad Region. Call: 8 967 977-35-25 (Monk Damaskin) 📍 Address: 199034, St. Petersburg, Vasilievsky Island, Lieutenant Schmidt Embankment, 27/2 Tel.: +7 (812) 321-74-73 Email: Email: [email protected] 🌐 The Podvorye's social media pages: MAX - https://max.ru/club8817170 Telegram - https://t.me/optinaspb VKontakte - https://vk.com/public8817170 Rutube - https://rutube.ru/channel/25959959/ YouTube - / @optinaspb ©️ Optina Pustyn Monastery Official Website - http://spb.optina.ru/ ©️ Monastery Official Website - https://www.optina.ru/