పిల్లల్లో సడన్ యాంగ్జయిటీ: అది నటన కాదు, పేరెంటింగ్ లోని లోపం! |SHIVA CHANDANA | SQUARE TALKS |

This source explains that the main reason why children suffer from extreme stress and anxiety even if they get a mark less is the "conditional affection" (love with rules) of the parents . If the parents are loving only when the children study well and get good marks, the fear of losing the parents' love starts in the children if they do not perform . Due to this, they cannot tolerate even small changes and suffer from severe panic attacks and extreme anxiety . Although this may seem like acting to the outside world or the parents, inside the children are fighting for their existence . Parents should first recognize the flaw in their parenting style and accept the children as they are (Unconditional Acceptance). Chandana warns that it is very dangerous if the children have to buy the parents' love with their marks or performance . This source suggests that children in such serious situations can be filled with self-confidence by providing counseling or therapy with the advice of experts