Swinging 101: A brief definition of the lifestyle

This video is part of my Non-Monogamy Definitions Series, where I break down common terms and help folks (especially in the LGBTQIA+ and polyamorous communities) feel more informed and empowered in their relationship choices. In this episode, we’re diving into the swinging lifestyle: What it is, how it differs from polyamory, and why communication, consent, and ethics still matter deeply here. Even though I’ve worked more extensively with folks in polyamory and open relationships, I believe education about all non-monogamous identities matters—because clarity and respect are essential for any relationship. Whether you’re swinging-curious, new to non-monogamy, or just wanting more language for the world you're exploring, I hope this video gives you a grounded starting point. Share your questions in the comments! I love hearing what you'd like to learn more about and may make another video based on what you ask. Resources mentioned + additional support: Online Platforms and Communities Dedicated Swinger Sites/Apps: Websites like AdultFriendFinder (AFF), SwapFinder, SDC (Swingers Date Club), and SwingLifeStyle offer detailed profiles, forums, events calendars, and educational resources, including blogs and "sex academies" Alternative Dating Apps: Apps such as Feeld and #open Online Forums/Subreddits: Subreddits like r/Swingers provide a community space for asking questions, sharing experiences, and finding local "R4R" (redditor for redditor) personal ads. Blogs and Resources In-Person Venues Swinger Clubs: Found in most major cities, these private, members-only clubs (like Club Sapphire near Seattle) host events and parties in a controlled setting. They usually have specific rules and etiquette, often covered during an initial orientation for newcomers, to ensure a safe and respectful experience for all. Swinger Parties/Events: These are often organized through the online platforms mentioned above and can range from house parties to larger events at rented venues. Lifestyle Resorts and Cruises Like, comment, and subscribe — it helps make queer relationship education more accessible for everyone. Want to learn more about me or working with me? Go to my website: https://www.elizabethanncunningham.com/ Ready to dive deeper into your own self-development and training? Learn more about Love Mastery Certification, the first ever certification course for LGBTQIA+ and Non Monogamous Relationships: https://lovemasterycert.com/ #swinging #nonmonogamy #ethicalnonmonogamy #relationshipeducation #loveactivism #elizabethcunningham #queerrelationships 00:00 - Welcome + What This Series Is About 00:18 - My Background in Relationship Education 01:03 - Why I Created the Non-Monogamy Definitions Series 01:19 - How Much I Know About Swinging (Honest POV) 01:47 - The Definition of Swinging 02:05 - How Swinging Differs From Polyamory 02:44 - Lifestyle Events and Community Ethics 03:05 - Consent, Boundaries, and Communication in Swinging 03:33 - Final Thoughts + Inviting Comments 04:00 - Why Subscribing Supports Queer Education