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I'm Setsumi Aoyama, a specialist in home education who helps parents understand adolescence, rebellion, and school refusal from the perspective of their child's mental and physical development, and who helps them consider "how to best support my child right now." 🔔 Read this and your child will become even more adorable! Free email newsletter Daily wisdom from Setsumi Aoyama, head of the "Happy Mother's Academy for a Future-Oriented Life"! Learn tips for dramatically increasing your child's self-esteem and learning ability, and concrete methods for overcoming school refusal and rebellious phases, all for free. https://www.reservestock.jp/subscribe... ★Sub-channel For parents of preschoolers to elementary school children How to raise smart children: Books, stationery, and picture books - "The Nurturing Bookstore"    / @hugkumilabo   For mothers raising elementary school to high school students, especially teenagers Your child's behavior has suddenly changed Your usual methods of interaction no longer work They rebel no matter what you say You're worried about whether things are okay as they are This is a place you should return to in such times This channel addresses the following concerns: ・They rebel immediately when you try to correct them ・Their lives are disrupted by excessive smartphone use and games ・They don't get up in the morning, don't study, and don't keep promises ・You don't know what your child is thinking ・How much should you intervene? I'm confused about where to start when it comes to taking responsibility. I don't know how to interact with a child who doesn't go to school. I'm worried if just watching over them is really enough. I get anxious when I think about my child's future. What I want to convey on this channel is: "Say this and your child will act." "Use this method and the problem will be solved." This is not about techniques to get your child to do what you want. Children's actions have reasons. However, those reasons are sometimes difficult for the child themselves to explain. That's why, instead of just scolding based on their immediate behavior, It's important for parents to understand, one step at a time, what's happening in their child's mind and body right now, what stage of development they're in, what to help with, and what to let them do on their own. And to be able to think about how to interact with your child in a way that suits them. This channel will cover: From the perspectives of physiology, psychology, education, and development. We explain the background of children's behavior and how to interact with them at home in the clearest way possible. Adolescence and rebellious phases are not simply a time when children stop listening to their parents. It's also a time when children gradually separate from their parents, and begin practicing building their own lives by thinking for themselves, making choices, and learning from their mistakes. Don't be too proactive. Don't neglect them completely. Don't ignore their will. But don't be swayed too much by everything they say. We share ways of interacting that lie "between intervening and letting go," along with specific phrases and ways of thinking. Topics include: "Raising Adolescents" "How to Deal with Rebellious Phases" "School Refusal in Middle School Students" "School Refusal in High School Students" "Smartphone/Game Problems" "Children Who Don't Get Up in the Morning" "Children Who Don't Study" "Children's Independence" "Improving Parent-Child Relationships" If any of these themes resonate with you, please come back and visit us again and again when you're troubled or unsure. When parents' perspectives change, the way they talk to their children and the atmosphere at home gradually begin to change. I hope this channel can be an opportunity for you to re-understand your child. Setsumi Aoyama Profile Home Education Specialist / Representative of Hugkumi Lab Supports mothers raising children in adolescence, rebellion, and school refusal Explains the background of children's behavior and emotions from the perspectives of physiology, psychology, education, and development Operates courses and communities that enable parents to understand their children's current state and consider appropriate ways of interacting with them Shares home education that helps understand children's development through YouTube, courses, and individual consultations Representative Courses and Communities: School Refusal Improvement Online Community "SOTTAKU" "Overcoming the 13-Year-Old Wall! Adolescent Frustration Syndrome and 'Special Seat Syndrome' Care" "Overcoming the 20-Year-Old Wall Course" "Elementary School Entrance Preparation Course" "How to Listen and Ask Questions to Get Children to Talk Little by Little" I'm Setsumi Aoyama, a specialist in home education who helps parents understand adolescence, rebellion, and school refusal from the perspect...