Jochen Schropp: „Mir wurde jahrelang vom Coming-out abgeraten“ | Männer weinen heimlich | Podimo

What price do men pay who refuse to hide their softer, more emotional side in a society defined by harshness? In this insightful episode of "Men Cry in Secret," host Sebastian Tigges talks with actor and presenter Jochen Schropp about a topic that demands immense courage: the constant tightrope walk between societal expectations and one's true self. More "Men Cry in Secret" and "tigges meets" in the Podimo app 💜 https://podimo.de/tiggestrifft_YT Follow Podimo on social media: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@podimo_de?lan... Instagram:   / podimo_de   Threads: https://www.threads.net/@podimo_de What does it mean to be a man today? And how can we, as men, forge new paths without unconsciously perpetuating old patterns? In "Men Cry in Secret," podcaster, columnist, and creator Sebastian Tigges and his guests explore the contradictory expectations placed on men and how they have become the people they are today. In in-depth conversations with prominent men, they delve into formative experiences and role models—identity, fatherhood, mental health, sexuality—and the courage to confront their own feelings. At the heart of the discussion is the question of how the spectrum of masculinities can be reimagined in a new and diverse way, beyond clichés and toxic norms. With "Men Cry in Secret," Sebastian Tigges creates a space for stories of ruptures, fears, transformations, and the courage to be vulnerable. The podcast offers valuable food for thought, reveals the multifaceted possibilities of contemporary male identity with all its contradictions and uncertainties, and is enriching for anyone who wants to better understand themselves and the men around them—regardless of their own gender. Timecodes: 00:00 - Experiences of bullying and starting a conversation 01:50 - Settling into the conversation and Berlin summer joys 02:35 - The father as a formative role model for masculinity 05:41 - School experiences and the confrontation with traditional masculinity 07:51 - From creativity to bullying: School experiences 11:09 - Being gay in the 80s/90s in the countryside 12:45 - From bullying to self-doubt: The search for causes 14:20 - Early signs and dealing with 'being different' 16:52 - Podcast recommendations 17:11 - The path to acting and the liberating time in America 20:10 - Life in the media industry before coming out 22:24 - Between authenticity and the expectations of the media industry 24:22 - Ball games and masculinity: The persistent shame 25:37 - The Burden of Team Sports and the Pressure to Competitive 26:56 - Dealing with the Media Industry and Coming Out 28:58 - The Decisive Moment for Coming Out 31:28 - Conflicts and Reconciliations After Coming Out 33:38 - Fears Before and After Coming Out 36:37 - Five Questions About Masculinity: Honest Answers 38:04 - Conclusion and Note on the Bonus Section ________________________ What is Podimo? Podimo is a streaming service for podcasts and audiobooks – for everyone who not only binge-watches but also binge-listens. With Podimo, you'll discover thousands of stories that captivate, entertain, and inspire you. Look forward to exciting true crime, the latest gossip, or personal stories. At Podimo, hundreds of exclusive podcasts and over 25,000 audiobooks await you without ads. What are you in the mood for? Whether you're on the go, cooking, jogging or relaxing on the couch: Podimo is there wherever you are!