Конфликты матери и взрослой дочери. Как решить проблемы с родителями. Чувство вины родителя

Author's transformational program to increase SELF-ESTEEM and SELF-CONFIDENCE: https://anettaschool.ru/y/514c6bf The "Self-esteem" program is a guiding star that will help you find your valuable place in life🌹 We will analyze in detail difficult, ambiguous situations, situations when conflicts occur between a mother and an adult daughter. We will analyze in detail the situations: If you have a difficult relationship with your mother and you have ever experienced a feeling of complete indifference on her part; Internal pain from childhood memories; you want to change something, but your mother is no longer there; A constant feeling of guilt or anger towards your mother does not let go; You cannot separate, your mother suppresses you; There is a great desire to build warm and trusting relationships in the family, but so far it has not worked out Adult children have become so distant that there is not a single point of contact 0:00​ Is intergenerational conflict inevitable? The problem of relationships between parents and children has always been acute. Children believe that parents do not give them freedom, do not give them a choice, and hinder their development. Is this really so? 4:10​ Are parents to blame for the fate of their children? People who experience a sense of parental guilt often come to consultations. They believe that parents should give their children everything possible, but they made mistakes, inflicted childhood trauma on their daughter or son in childhood, raised them incorrectly and nothing can be changed, since this is the past. And in the present, conflicts have appeared between an adult mother and daughter. 9:00​ The conflict between a child and a parent can escalate, including due to the not entirely correct work of a psychologist. Psychoanalysts love to analyze, talk about what problems came from childhood, that parents prevented the development of certain character traits. And this causes, instead of finding ways to solve the problem, endless accusations against parents, what exactly they did wrong in the past. What did not work out in the relationship between daughter and mother. But this does not help to find a way out of the situation. This only exacerbates the conflict between mother and daughter, makes the adult child accumulate resentment. 12:50 I came to the conclusion that there is no need to analyze what parents did wrong. You think about what to do if parents interfere with your life, but if you are an adult at the age of 40, your parents can no longer restrain you. Relationships are built not on the parent-child model, but on the adult-adult model. A conflict between a parent and a child at this age is already a conflict between adults. 📹Conflicts between a mother and an adult daughter    • Video  ​ Watch other interesting videos on the channel: 📺What does a difficult character mean    • Что значит сложный характер?  Люди с котор...  ​ 📺The halo effect in psychology    • Эффект ореола в психологии. Эффект стереот...  ​ 📺Motivation for success in business and life    • Мотивация на успех в бизнесе и жизни. Как ...  ​ Subscribe, click on 🔔 so as not to miss new videos https://www.youtube.com/c/AnettaOrlov... 💬 See you on my social networks. networks: ➤ ➤ TikTok   / anettaorlova   ➤ Telegram https://t.me/anettaorlova Anetta Orlova's online school SelfEvolution https://anettaschool.ru/y/ed84540 Self-Evolution Schools 👐 Anetta Orlova's personal consultation http://anettaorlova.com/ 🤝 Advertising and offers [email protected] #AnettaOrlova #psychologistinMoscow #psychologistinSt.Petersburg #psychology #conflicts #adult_daughter #parents #trainings_anettaorlova #webinar_anettaorlova #emotions_anettaorlova #relationships_anettaorlova​ #dependentrelationships_anettaorlova​ #anettaorlova_youtube