Broke Men and “Provider” Men Have the Same Problem!

Financial abuse can look like many things. It’s sometimes the “provider” man using his money to control and donimate you. Sometimes it’s the hobosexual broke man (or Peter Pan syndrome guy) or whatever who uses your money but dominates you in other ways. The root problem is male entitlement, toxic masculinity, and male supremacy culture and mindset. Men are so afraid they won’t get a woman with something other than money bc many of them can’t. They have no personality. So they want to trap women like grandpa did in a trad wife situation. Or they want to trap her emotionally through working he rot death. Please dont’ assume that men who provide are any more or less dangerous than the men who are lazy and entitled and don’t wanna work. Both are financial abuse and both have the same root cause— a culture of patriarchy that men won’t let go of. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandst... #toxicmasculinity #dusty #financialabuse #relationshipadvice #redflags #hobosexual #independentwoman #feminism #datingadviceforwomen Follow Stefanie O’Connell here ‪@StefanieOConnell‬ and https://www.instagram.com/stefanieoco... Follow me on Patreon too 💕 BUT DON’T JOIN ON THE APP! They will charge you way more!!! Do it on the patreon website! https://patreon.com/u30750491?utm_med... I also have cameo but make sure you don’t do it on the app if you use Apple, do it on the website ! https://v.cameo.com/e/LM57KhdgyZb My articles, podcasts , etc are here: https://linktr.ee/MelanieHamlett And if you’re feeling generous… Venmo: https://venmo.com/u/Melanie-Hamlett PayPal : https://www.paypal.me/hamlettwriting