My brother in law planned christmas with the whole family at my house without permission

I found out Christmas was being hosted at my house from a group message I wasn’t even part of. My brother-in-law planned Christmas with the whole family at my house without permission, and somehow everyone else already knew. My brother-in-law planned Christmas with the whole family at my house without permission, sending schedules, menus, and sleeping arrangements like the decision had been made weeks ago. I didn’t question it at first. Something about the confidence in his messages felt unusual. A handwritten grocery list appeared on my kitchen counter, and I had no idea who left it there. My brother-in-law planned Christmas with the whole family at my house without permission, but by December, the silence around that plan was louder than the plan itself. #storytime #familydrama #holidayconflict #emotionalstory #familytension