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Information about Larisa Bandura's services - https://tg.pulse.is/Psiholog_Larisa_B... You work, you do so much for the company, and in return there is no "thank you" or promotion, but only new projects. Are you not trying hard enough? Why aren't you being promoted? Why is there little feedback, no attention, no praise? Turn on the video if you feel that you are undervalued at work and you lack praise and recognition of your achievements. TABLE OF CONTENTS: 01:40 Praise addiction - what is it? It is part of major psychological problems: narcissism, increased anxiety, a tendency to addiction. Wanting to receive praise is normal. 02:20 When is the desire to receive praise a problem? You have no self-esteem, you can't be proud of yourself, you always feel like you're not up to par. Signs that you're addicted to praise: 02:59 Sign 1. Devaluing your own achievements. You feel like you're being praised unfairly, if you've succeeded in something, it's just an accident. 03:23 Sign 2. If you haven't been praised for a long time, you start to feel like you're not loved, like no one needs you. It's almost paranoid anxiety. 04:03 Sign 3. You accept praise with apprehension. You feel like you've been noticed, now they'll watch you and notice every mistake, which means they'll stop loving you. 04:33 Sign 4. Public praise is important. You're sensitive to it when someone else is praised. 04:58 Why does addiction to praise arise? It all comes from childhood. You don’t have your own system for evaluating yourself, you are dependent on someone else’s evaluation. You always look at your mother, parents, other people to check if you live up to their expectations. When does the need for praise come first? 06:28 There was a lot of criticism and negativity in childhood. The child was often shamed, achievements were not noticed, taken for granted, and scolded for bad things, deprived of emotional contact. 07:32 In childhood, they praised absolutely everything. As a result, a system for evaluating yourself did not develop. Good or bad? What am I like? You did not understand this in childhood, and you do not understand it now. 09:44 The child was not raised, but brought up. Lack of emotional contact. 11:10 How to deal with addiction to praise? Individual therapy is an opportunity to deeply and effectively work on the problem. Even in one consultation you can get a huge boost of energy for a breakthrough, realize a lot, become more successful, get career growth. With you, psychologist Larisa Bandura. #Psychologist #Psychologistonline #Psychology #want_recognition #addiction_to_praise Similar videos/I recommend watching: I want to live better, or How to stop feeling sorry for yourself? Psychologist Larisa Bandura:    • Я хочу жить лучше, или Как перестать жалет...   Fear of shame. How to overcome shame? How to get rid of the feeling of shame? Psychologist Larisa Bandura:    • Страх стыда. Как побороть стыд? Как избави...   I really need approval, what should I do? Psychologist Larisa Bandura:    • Сильно нуждаюсь в одобрении, что делать? П...   If my videos helped you, you can express your gratitude for my contribution: https://tg.pulse.is/Psiholog_Larisa_B... Thanks to everyone who has already helped my channel! Why is it important for a remote worker to receive recognition and praise? The thirst for recognition. Addiction to praise Sincerely, Larisa Bandura