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🌷 Hello, Sweets and Sweets by Orit Menashe 🌷 A question that comes back to me again and again is: Is it right to say goodbye and come back, say goodbye and come back, over and over again? Or is it something destructive that needs to be stopped immediately? My answer may surprise you. In most cases, I'm actually in favor. Why? Very simple. As long as the heart and head are still not in sync, as long as part of you still loves, misses, is connected and feels that this person is a significant part of your life — leaving by force is not truly liberating. You can physically distance yourself. You can block. You can go on dozens of new dates. You can declare that everything is over. And still wake up in the morning with longing. And still think about him. And still compare every new person who enters your life to him. In such a situation, the struggle becomes against yourself. I believe less in internal wars. I believe in growth. I believe in learning. I believe in getting stronger. That's why it's often better to go through this path consciously. To come back a little wiser. A little stronger. A little more sober. Learn from your mistakes. Improve your communication. Strengthen your self-worth. And develop resilience. Like a student who takes the same test over and over again. Fails once. Fails a second time. Fails a third time. Then, after countless attempts, he succeeds. Great success is not just in the grade. Great success is in the person he has become along the way. And so it is in relationships. At a certain point, a moment comes when a person is no longer governed by fear, longing, or dependence. He becomes bigger than the problem. Then his decisions look different. They come from a place of calm. From a place of stability. From a place of wholeness. From a place that doesn't need the other person like air to breathe. It is precisely from this place that you can truly choose: To stay. To leave. To try again. Or to turn a new leaf. But this time out of strength and not out of lack. The most beautiful connections are usually born when a person is also good with themselves. When they have life. Joy. Friends. Meaning. Action. They are not looking for someone to save them. They are simply open to love. And when a person is open to love out of inner wholeness, they perceive completely different opportunities. Therefore, when you left and you are still bursting with longing, still waiting for them to apologize, still dreaming that they will come back and realize how wrong they were — the story is probably not over yet within you. Instead of fighting yourself, it is worth getting stronger. To learn. To develop. To build resilience. Improve yourself. Become a better version of yourself. This is the really important point. It's less about how many times you've relapsed. It's more about who you become along the way. Each relapse should bring with it more awareness. More understanding. More emotional leadership. More inner strength. Until the moment comes when you say: I choose myself. Out of self-love. Out of silence. Out of the clear knowledge that you deserve good. And this is a wonderful place to reach. Sweethearts, Strengthen the most important stock in the universe. Yourself. ❤️ There is no more ingenious investment than investing in the person you are. When you get stronger — your health improves, your confidence grows, your inner peace expands, your relationship improves, and your whole life looks different. I love you endlessly. Thank you for all the love, encouragement, and kind words. See you in the next enlightening voicemail. 🌷💜 Orit Menashe – Doctor for Broken Hearts #Relationships #Love #Broken_Hearts #Emotional_Dependence #Breakup #Back_to_Ex #Hot_Cold #Personal_Empowerment #Self_Worth #Self_Confidence #Personal_Development #Emotional_Leadership #Mental_Resilience #Personal_Growth #Emotional_Healing #Self_Love #Couple_Communication #Orit_Menashe #Podcast #Life_Changing_Voice_Tips