В Китае — норма, в России — позор: за что высмеивают и почему комплексуют в разных странах #19

📸 Find out more about life as a foreigner in Russia, plus behind-the-scenes footage and behind-the-scenes stories, in our Telegram channel 👉 https://t.me/+Q8pJb6BrzHEyNmNi 🎥 If you enjoyed this and want to support us by watching full episodes (uncensored and featuring stories that didn't make it to YouTube) or coming to a shoot, join us wherever you like: 👉 Boosty — https://boosty.to/tutti-frutti 👉 Telegram (private club) — https://t.me/tribute/app?startapp=eq 👉 YouTube sponsorship —    / @tuttifrutti-team   _______________________________________ Why do complexes develop? How do parents, classmates, and society shape our self-esteem? Is it possible to overcome shyness if you've been teased your whole life? In this episode, expats in Russia—Kai from China and Jordan from England—share stories about what they're embarrassed about and how these insecurities arose. We discuss how to become the best version of yourself, using humor, sports, and psychology to reclaim your power. We also discuss what national insecurities are—for example, why Chinese people feel inferior to Europeans, and why English people might be ashamed of their accent. What insecurities did you have—and how did you overcome them? ❤️ Subscribe and like if you want more podcasts from us. We always welcome your topic suggestions! #foreigners #tuttifrutti #podcast #self-esteem ________________________________________ 🍋 Guests: Russia: Katya Germ-Uvarova @uvarovaka China: Kai @xing_kaizheng UK: Jordan Worsley @jordan_worsley 🌶️ Thanks to the bar "Na Kovver" @na.kover for the best filming location (Moscow, ul. Aleksandra Solzhenitsyn, 23Ас4) 📩 Write to: [email protected] 🪗 Contents: 00:00 Start 02:36 What Kai was embarrassed about as a child 06:15 Why studying is EVERYTHING in China 07:37 How Kai overcame his problems 15:34 When being tall is a curse 21:00 Why it's forbidden in China Schoolchildren dating 22:05 How parents helped them cope with conflicts and complexes 24:02 How parents' words create complexes 25:00 How easy it is to accidentally offend someone 26:25 What happened to Jordan's father and how it affected him 28:15 The consequences of conflicts at school: how they can lead to tragedy 30:00 KVN as a way to gain self-confidence 33:55 Advice on dealing with bullies from Jordan's mother 35:57 Can fighting help overcome bullying? 38:00 Clothes, style, and confidence 40:45 What is worse: physical or psychological abuse? 42:50 National characteristics of complexes 49:02 Complexes as a driver for a better version of yourself 51:58 How a psychologist helped cope with insecurity 52:43 Jordan's complex 55:04 How to help children cope with complexes 57:01 Advice for those struggling with low self-esteem