É Por Isso Que as Pessoas Não te Respeitam (e você nem percebe)

🔗 Learn about Think Like Special Forces (PCFE): 👉 https://ernestoreis.co/bonzinho 🖤 Minimal T-shirts (the same one I'm wearing in the episode). Use coupon ERNESTOREIS for an exclusive discount: https://lp.minimalclub.com.br/ernesto... 💡 Subscribe to my free weekly newsletter: https://ernestoreis.com.br/diarios-pcfe/ You help. You say yes. You're always available. And yet, at the end of the day, you feel used, ignored, and unappreciated. Most people call this disrespect. But the truth is harsher: you're being treated with the price you yourself demanded for your own respect. In this video, I open up about one of the toughest experiences of my command: the moment I took over a Commando Actions detachment trying to please the team—and almost lost the team's trust because of it. It was there that I heard a phrase that changed everything: "All good guys end up as poor victims." Here, you will understand: Why trying to please others to be loved is the most expensive one-sided contract of your life The difference between kindness and naiveté — and why confusing the two leads to resentment The 3 invisible contracts you sign every week without realizing it (and why the second one is the worst) Why you can say no to strangers, but freeze up with your mother, your father, your boss The fourth response to danger that no one taught you: the response of pleasing others The difference between being tough, being nice, and being good — and why most people only know two of these positions The two questions you need to ask before any "yes" The three phrases that resolve any "no" without aggression, without theatrics, without guilt This video is for you if: You are tired of helping and never feeling recognized You have difficulty saying no at work, in your family, or in relationships You have caught yourself calling others ungrateful You feel you are negating yourself to be accepted You are ready to stop silently demanding... The price of a bill no one will pay. This content isn't about becoming hard, cold, or cynical. It's about understanding that there's a third position, one that almost no one taught you to occupy: the position of the good person—the one who does the right thing because it's right, without needing applause to continue. In the next video, I talk about what you're communicating even before you open your mouth—because most people lose respect before the first word:    • 7 Comportamentos que Fazem as Pessoas Para...   This channel is a true mental training ground inspired by the mindset of the Special Forces. Subscribe so you don't miss out and shield your mind:    / @ernestoreisfh   Leave your question below. Maybe I can help you. Here, we talk about discipline, resilience, emotional management, procrastination, productivity, focus, and everything a Special Forces veteran can share to help you win the hardest battle of all: the one against yourself. I don't bring magic formulas, but truths. And a truth, when it finds an open wound, doesn't hurt. It heals. To help me strengthen the movement we are creating, like, comment, and share the content. We will still make the world think like Special Forces.