【実はここで差がつく】孫が大きくなっても会いに来る祖父母5選｜じいじ・ばあばの本当の役割とは？

When they were little, grandchildren used to come visit so often. But as they grow up, their world expands—friends, school, clubs, smartphones—and the distance between them and their grandparents gradually changes. "Recently, my grandchildren don't visit as often as before." "As grandparents, how should we be involved?" "I want to be a comforting presence for my grandchildren." Have you ever felt that way? In this video, we'll discuss common characteristics often seen in grandparents who continue to visit their grown-up grandchildren, incorporating perspectives on parenting and family relationships. The important thing isn't to force grandchildren to stay connected. It's about whether you can be a place where, when your grown-up grandchildren suddenly remember you, they think, "I want to come visit again." We'll explore together how grandparents should be involved, the appropriate distance from parents, conversations with grandchildren, and the connection between three generations. What can grandparents leave behind for their grandchildren? This isn't about techniques for being liked by grandchildren, but rather, I hope it offers some helpful tips for creating a safe and secure place within your family. ■Table of Contents 00:00 Introduction 01:30 Listen to the End 03:43 Don't Criticize Parents 06:02 Celebrate Their Existence Rather Than Their Abilities 08:35 Have "Classic" Activities You Can Enjoy Together 10:48 Don't Chase Too Much Even If Distance Grows 13:26 Conclusion ■Nobita's Grandmother    • [ドラえもん] 感動シーン #shorts #ドラえもん #おばあちゃん   ■Related Videos    • 実は、祖父母の「過去」を知っている子どもは…｜じいじ・ばあばの本当の役割とは？      • 実は、良かれと思っているほど逆効果になる祖父母の行動5選｜じいじ・ばあばの本来の役割とは？      • 孫がのびのび育つ！祖父母の共通点7選｜じいじ・ばあばの本当の役割とは？   ■References ★How do grandparents influence child health and development? A systematic review https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31539... ★The impact of grandparent–parent co-parenting relationships in intergenerational co-parenting families on the behavior of preschool children: a Scoping Review ★Intergenerational Narratives: How Collective Family Stories Relate to Adolescents’ Emotional Well-being https://revistas.pucsp.br/aurora/arti... #Grandparents #Grandchildren #Childcare #GrandpaAndGrandma #Parenting #FamilyRelationships #ThreeGenerations VOICEVOX "Ryusei Aoyama" Canva Irasutoya