The Closet Reckoning: Why Women Feel Lost in Their Style and Confidence with Elysha Lenkin

In this episode of “Enough Already Women Rise”, I sit down with New York stylist Elysha Lenkin for an honest conversation about confidence, identity, and the emotional connection women have with their wardrobes. Together, they unpack how clothing choices can impact self-esteem, leadership presence, and personal evolution especially for women navigating midlife transitions. Elysha Lenkin is a New York based stylist with more than three decades of experience working with major brands, magazines, and celebrities. Today, she specializes in helping midlife women build intentional wardrobes that align with who they are becoming, empowering them to feel confident, elevated, and fully themselves. Key Takeaways: Why many successful women still struggle with wardrobe confidence How clothing choices affect self-image and energy The emotional impact of evolving your personal style Why “good enough” dressing keeps women stuck How intentional styling creates confidence and presence Elysha’s practical approach to wardrobe management Why style evolution is tied to personal growth How to stop impulse shopping and buy with purpose The importance of dressing congruently with who you are How letting go of old clothes can symbolize releasing limiting beliefs Episode Timestamps: [00:00] - Introduction to Elysha Lenkin and the conversation on wardrobe [05:54] - Why successful women often feel overwhelmed by their wardrobes [08:14] - How wardrobe transformation changes self-perception and confidence [13:21] - Elysha’s approach to wardrobe management and intentional shopping [19:01] - Using colour, style, and intentional clothing choices to feel empowered [23:14] - What women should stop doing: settling for “good enough” [26:41] - Final reflections on empowering women through confidence and self-expression Stay connected & soul powered! Sign up for Mo’s newsletter for inspiration, insights, and everything Coach Mo: https://mofaul.com/NewsletterSignUp Connect with Elysha Lenkin: LinkedIn:   / elysha-lenkin-7054a421   Website: https://elyshalenkin.com/ Instagram:   / elysha_nyc   YouTube:    / @elyshalenkin   Connect with Coach Mo: AI-powered Soul Powered Career Solution - https://mofaul.com/Mobi The Leadership Collective - Community & Growth - https://mofaul.com/TLC LinkedIn:   / coachmofaul   Facebook:   / coachmofaul   Instagram:   / mofaul   X: https://x.com/CoachMoFaul Follow the Podcast on other platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/27HGFhU...

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