Divorce in Midlife: What I Wish More Women Knew

Divorce in midlife carries a different weight. By the time you reach your 40s or 50s, you’re not just untangling emotions — you’re untangling retirement accounts, shared investments, homes, businesses, and years — sometimes decades — of financial and personal history. The decisions made during this season can shape not only the present, but your long-term stability and future security. In this episode of Second Act Sessions, Stephanie sits down with nationally recognized family law attorney, entrepreneur, and author Jill Coil for an honest and empowering conversation about navigating divorce with greater clarity, preparation, and understanding. Jill is the founder of CoilLaw, co-founder of Moxie Law Group, and author of No One Dies from Divorce. Through her work, she has helped thousands of individuals navigate the legal, financial, and emotional realities of divorce while helping women feel more informed and less overwhelmed by the process. Together, Stephanie and Jill discuss many of the questions women often don’t know to ask until they’re already in the middle of it all — from filing first, mediation, and no-fault divorce laws to financial preparation, legal fees, retirement accounts, long-term security, and protecting yourself emotionally and financially during major life transitions. This episode isn’t about encouraging divorce. It’s about education, awareness, and helping women feel more equipped to navigate one of life’s hardest seasons with wisdom instead of fear. For more information about Jill Coil and her work, visit https://coillaw.com/ or and connect with her on Instagram at @jillcoil. This episode also includes a special sponsor mention from Revelation Candle — Stephanie’s favorite faith-based candle company. As each clean-burning candle melts, a hidden Bible verse is revealed in the wax, creating a beautiful reminder of faith, hope, and encouragement. Shop Revelation Candle at https://revelationcandle.com and use code STEPH15 at checkout for 15% off your order. Be sure to follow and subscribe to Second Act Sessions wherever you listen to podcasts, and join us for an inspiring new season of honest conversations and meaningful second acts.