The Codependency Matrix - Your Empathy is Narcissist Food.
In this video I explore the matrix of codependency and why some people, even though they’re strong and independent, end up giving more than they receive. I explain how low empathy individuals tend to find and exploit those who over-function, and how this can leave the one who 'feels too much' with less, less care and emotions for their own growth. If you're someone who always takes care of others but feels like no one takes care of you, this video will help you understand what's going on. We’ll look at how these patterns start, often from childhood, and how they affect your relationships today. You’ll learn how to break free from the cycle of over-giving, set healthy boundaries, and start feeling more balanced in your relationships. If you're ready to shift this dynamic, keep watching! Chapters 00:00 - Intro to hyper-independence and codependency. 00:11 - Codependency and childhood neglect. 01:06 - Self-esteem from helping others. 02:00 - Struggling with receiving care. 03:00 - Overfunctioning in relationships. 04:00 - Unworthiness from childhood conditioning. 05:00 - Attracting narcissists due to weak boundaries. 06:00 - Creating narcissistic behaviors in others. 07:00 - Imbalance between empathic givers and narcissistic takers. 08:00 - Protecting empathy from rising narcissism. 09:00 - Setting boundaries and stopping exploitation. 10:00 - Empaths directing energy consciously. 11:00 - Offering support for codependents and inviting followers. ✨𝐉𝐨𝐢𝐧 𝐈𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐏𝐬𝐲𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐲✨ / @psychologist_clarissam 🍁𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐈𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐏𝐬𝐲𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐲🍁 Inner Work Psychology is a space dedicated to personal growth and healing. Led by Clarissa, an experienced psychologist and psychotherapist, the channel explores topics like ego, self-awareness, and the unconscious mind. Through a blend of therapy techniques, mindfulness, and insights from well-known psychologists like Carl Jung, Clarissa offers valuable knowledge on understanding ourselves, managing emotions, and improving relationships. The content here is designed to help you better understand your mental and emotional world, guiding you on a journey toward personal and spiritual growth. Please note, this channel is for educational purposes and is not a substitute for therapy. If you need urgent help, please contact Lifeline (13 11 14, Australia) or your local mental health support line. Thanks For Watching: Trapped in Codependency? Here's How to Break Free and Start Receiving | Inner Work Psychology #codependency #breakfree #overgiving #selfgrowth #healthyboundaries #selfcare #emotionalhealth #healingjourney #relationshiptips #mentalhealthawareness #personaldevelopment #codependencyrecovery #boundarie #selflove #selfawareness 𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐒𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐬 : how to break free from codependency overcoming codependency in relationships signs of being trapped in codependency how to stop over-giving and start receiving
