Creating a Card System for Couples | Managing the Mental Load | Hobonichi Weeks Update

Planning used to be just for me, but a year plus into my marriage I am realizing that planning really is a "we" activity... which can be tricky when one of you (me) has high functioning anxiety and the other has ADHD. Join me as I reflect on my planning slump and create my own take on the notecard planning system popularized by the book Sidetracked Home Executives. 00:00:00 – Intro 00:02:39 – Planning So Far 00:03:38 – WE not just ME 00:05:12 – Weeks Woes 00:06:15 – Diagnosis 00:10:00 – Fair Play 00:12:52 – Bright Spots 00:15:40 – Sidetracked Home Executives 00:17:38 – Our Adapted Card System 00:35:54 – From the Cards to the Weeks 00:40:43 – Beauty, Not Backfilling 00:47:43 – Final Reflections 00:49:41 – What About You? 00:50:56 – Outro & Goodbye ✏︎ Products featured in this video: 📔 2026 Hobonichi Weeks, Antique Green ☁️ Hobonichi Tragen: Oakmoss, Weeks 🖋️ Muji 0.5mm - Black ✧ Affiliate Links 📼 The Washi Tape Shop - use my code Michael10 when you check out for 10% off your order at The Washi Tape Shop or use this link: https://www.thewashitapeshop.com?aff=... 📜 IEEBEE Washi Tape and Stationery - use my code MARGINS when you checkout for 30% off your purchase at IEEBEE or use this link: https://ieebee.com/?ref=margins 🎓 Skillshare - use the following link to get access to Skillshare's library of classes free for a month: https://skillshare.eqcm.net/c/6658102... ✄ Creators mentioned: ‪@ella_nym‬ Her video that inspired me:    • why i switched to Index Cards: new functio...   ‪@natashashealthyliving‬ Her card system video:    • My Index Card System for a Peaceful, Organ...   ‪@februaryandjune‬ ✍︎ Connect with me: ✉️ Email: [email protected] 🎵TikTok: @mikeinthemargins 📷 Instagram: @michaelinthemargins 🖇️ Patreon: patreon.com/michaelinthemargins ✑ Music: LofCosmos from Pixabay #planning #plannercommunity #adhd #mentalload #marriage #hobonichi