He’ll Easily Sleep With You, BUT If He REALLY Loves You He Will Do This... | Adam Lane Smith

Thank you to today’s sponsor: OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Sex means completely different things to men and women. You finish feeling deeply connected… he finishes and feels like he just ate a hamburger. In this episode, I sit down with Adam Lane Smith, therapist, attachment specialist, and straight-up relationship decoder. We unpack why men and women bond so differently during sex. We talk about why so many couples keep missing each other emotionally. And most importantly, what we can actually do about it. This conversation goes deep into the biology, the psychology, and the heartbreak of it all. If you’ve ever wondered why men pull away when you crave connection, or why intimacy sometimes leaves you lonelier than before… it’s time to hear the truth. Here’s exactly what we get into: Why sex bonds women but disconnects men (and what to do instead) The hormones that make men loyal and how to trigger them naturally How to spot early signs of contempt before it’s too late Why so many affairs happen after the first child (and how to prevent it) How to rebuild trust, safety, and intimacy after betrayal Women of Impact viewers get a 10% discount on Adam’s programs at bundle.adamlanesmith.com with code: IMPACT10 Chapter Titles: [00:00] Why Sex Bonds Women but Not Men [05:59] The 3 Ways to Make a Man Emotionally Bond During Sex [12:18] The 4 Levels of Safety Every Woman Needs Before Bonding [23:51] The 8 Signs You’re Dating a Narcissist [42:03] “He says he loves you, then cheats” - avoidant neurochemistry and repair path [53:05] The Baby Effect: Why Many Affairs Happen Within 6 Months Of The First Child [59:49] The Hard Truth About Men’s Psychology: Sex, Bonding & Trust [01:10:22] How to Talk So Men Actually Hear You Follow Adam Lane Smith: Website: https://adamlanesmith.com Instagram:   / attachmentadam   YouTube:    / @attachmentadam   Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram:   / lisabilyeu   Facebook:   / lisabilyeu   Want to search through every episode, explore specific topics, or ask me questions directly? Check out my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer.