Why Does He Accuse You of Things You Didn’t Do?

Does your guy have a Mean Switch? Find out: https://yourbrilliance.com/quiz Why does he accuse you of things you didn't do? Half the time, the things he accuses you of are things he's doing himself. What gives? Love coach Amy Waterman from Your Brilliance explains why your boyfriend or husband might be accusing you of things HE is actually doing to YOU (or thinking about doing). It's a form of projection called a pre-emptive attack. It can throw you off guard. It can put you on the defensive. And there's a tool you can use to stop it in its tracks. Is he yelling or shouting at you?    • What to Do When Your Boyfriend Shouts at Y...      • My Boyfriend Yells at Me - Love Coach Amy ...   Is your relationship toxic? Discover the 5 warning signs:    • 5 Warning Signs of a Toxic Relationship - ...   If you want in-depth information on understanding verbal abuse, these two books can save your life: The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans: http://yourbrilliance.org/verbalabuse Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft http://yourbrilliance.org/bancroft I was thrilled to speak to verbal abuse expert Patricia Evans recently, and you can watch my interview with her here:    • Verbally Abusive Relationships - Patricia ...   When you're ready to leave, these two videos might help: How to Leave a Toxic Relationship    • How to Leave a Toxic Relationship - Amy Wa...   How to Stop Loving a Toxic Person    • How Do You Stop Loving a Toxic Person? Amy...   Watch more of my videos on toxic relationships:    • What to Do When Your Boyfriend Shouts at Y...   #ToxicRelationships #AbusiveRelationships #YourBrilliance #toxicrelationship #abusiverelationship