Keeping the SPARK, Texting your EX, and being the SINGLE FRIEND...

EP 33 | WHATADO: Spicing Up Your Relationship, Being the Single Friend, and Texting the Ex HBD *** WHATADOS are back, and though Jess and Caroline are physically falling apart and can't agree about hair removal strategies, their non-advice to the kooks is ready to rage. First up, keeping the fire alive in a long-term relationship - including asking for what you want (both directly and indirectly) and evaluating your sex life for signs of disconnection. Speaking of sex life, "whatado: eye contact giving head" is one of the best questions (if it can be considered a question) that we've ever received. Plus, why texting your ex happy birthday is always self-serving, and how to deal with unsolicited advice from friends in relationships when you're single and they're projecting. Make sure to check out the Instagram reel we referenced as an example in that last one. We wrap it up with a revelation from Caroline about the vulnerability that is needed for a new relationship to work, and a complaint from Jess that has thrown off her vision for some time now. We all have those smudges we just can't get out. *** Not for Everyone is an existential commentary podcast hosted by one hater (Caroline Winkler) and one lover (Jess DeBakey), with new episodes every Thursday. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5f9AtKs... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... And everywhere else: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... *** And FOLLOW US on Instagram for more: @not4everyonepod @thegoodsitter @jzdebakey *** This episode was produced by none other than our prince, @abinewhouse. *** Share with a friend! Subscribe and rate us on your favorite podcasting app! Review us on Apple Podcasts! *** Contents of this Video 00:00 - Intro *** 𝐃𝐈𝐒𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐈𝐌𝐄𝐑 All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or mental health professionals, or really professional of any kind. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe! Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA #podcast #selfhelp #comedypodcast #bestfriends