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Why do so many intelligent, successful women struggle to find healthy, fulfilling relationships? In this episode of Becoming Sound, Krista Zaft sits down with dating and relationship coach Lilli Bewley for a conversation that goes far beyond dating advice. Together they explore self-abandonment, childhood conditioning, people pleasing, nervous system healing, attachment patterns, parts work, and the journey from seeking validation to building genuine self-trust. If you've ever found yourself repeating relationship patterns, questioning your worth, struggling with boundaries, or wondering why love feels harder than it should, this episode is for you. Connect with Lilli: https://linktr.ee/lillibewley Connect with Us: https://kristazaft.com/ 🎧 Listen on Apple & Spotify ➡️ Subscribe for more. Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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