A VERDADE sobre propósito: assim você NUNCA será feliz

The world sold you a lie about purpose. They said there's "the right thing" waiting for you… and that when you find it, everything will finally make sense. But what if purpose isn't something you find—but something you build? In this video, I talk about: • the illusion of the "perfect ideal" • why we always feel inadequate • how consumption feeds this existential void • the relationship between anxiety, past, future, and presence • why experience and risk are essential to creating meaning in life • and how to build a real life, even without ideal conditions This may have been the most authentic video I've ever recorded. No cuts. No computer. No perfection. Just reality. ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 — The lie they told you about purpose 01:42 — The danger of the idea of ​​"vocation" 04:05 — The perfect ideal doesn't exist 06:14 — The metaphor of the horizon and lack 08:48 — Consumption, existential emptiness, and delayed happiness 11:02 — Presence, anxiety, and depression 13:18 — Flow, playing, and living in the present 15:02 — You don't find purpose: you create it 📌 If this video makes sense to you: 👍 Like 📤 Share with someone 🔔 Subscribe to follow future reflections #Purpose #MentalHealth #Psychoanalysis #Anxiety #SelfKnowledge #Existentialism #Therapy #Psychology #RealLife #PersonalDevelopment 🎯 ABOUT ME I am Thiago Nascimento, a psychoanalyst. Winnicottian, couples therapist, and PhD candidate in Psychology at USP. Here on the channel, you'll understand what your emotional history does to you, and what to do with it in your relationships, in your clinical practice, and on your path. I see individuals and couples therapists in Pinheiros, São Paulo, and online. Website: https://www.tnascimento.com.br Instagram: @tnascimento ✏ PSILETTER, THREAD OF SELF If you feel overwhelmed with so much information, I organize it for you. I created the weekly Psiletter, Thread of Self. I curate topics on relationships, psychology, clinical practice, human development, and psychoanalysis. Every week with 3 to 5 relevant and hand-picked news items and studies, with commentary and theoretical grounding, articulating science and everyday life through psychoanalysis. Sign up for the complete and exclusive material in your email: https://thiagonascimentopsi.substack.... 📚 FOR THERAPISTS AND PSYCHOLOGY STUDENTS If you are a therapist and your schedule isn't full, you're probably making mistakes that are driving patients away, even if you're a good professional. It's not a lack of technique. It's something more subtle: the way you position yourself, communicate, and allow yourself to exist in the market. I've compiled the 7 most common mistakes that drive patients away from competent therapists... and how to correct each one. 👉 Access here: https://www.tnascimento.com.br/ebook7... If you are starting to see patients or want to structure the beginning of your practice with more confidence, check out the Guide to Starting Therapy: 👉 Access here: https://guia.tnascimento.com.br/