#54 - Lo que nos hubiera cambiado todo en nuestros 20s y 30s

What would you have liked to know when you were 20 or 30? How would your life have changed if someone had told you that making mistakes is okay, that you don't have to please everyone, or that it's never too late for anything? In this episode of Between Sisters, Mariana Sánchez-Williams and Alessandra Rosaldo sit down alone—as in the podcast's early episodes—for an intimate, funny, and deeply honest conversation about all those lessons that only come with time. Amid laughter, anecdotes, confessions, and very emotional moments, they talk about the expectations they had for life when they were younger and how their ideas about success, love, motherhood, bodies, relationships, and the passage of time have changed. Because growing up also means unlearning many things: letting go of the need for approval, learning to set boundaries, accepting change, and understanding that not everything has to be resolved immediately. Mariana and Ale reflect on how tough it can be to be in your 20s or 30s, that stage where it seems like everyone already has all the answers while you're just trying to figure out who you are. They talk about the pressure to "have it all figured out," the fear of rejection, the obsession with being liked by everyone, and the importance of learning to listen to your intuition before ignoring it for years. They also share how their definition of success has changed over time. What once seemed related to fame, productivity, or recognition, now resembles more peace, family, mental health, presence, and the possibility of living an authentic life. They also discuss adult love, real relationships, the importance of therapy, and how true growth begins when we stop chasing a "better version" and learn to embrace who we are today. And yes, there's also room to laugh at themselves, talk about the bodies we criticize and then miss, about impossible expectations, and about all those things that cease to matter with age. Because perhaps one of the best things about growing up is precisely that: learning to live with more freedom and less rushing. In this episode we talk about: • What you wish you had known in your 20s and 30s • Why making mistakes doesn't mean failing • How to stop seeking approval from others • The importance of setting boundaries and learning to say no • What success really means after 50 • How the idea of ​​love changes over time • The pressure to "have it all figured out" when you're young • Why it's never too late to reinvent yourself • What stops mattering as the years go by • The importance of therapy, intuition, and calm 🎧 Press play on this episode if you've ever felt lost, pressured, or inadequate. This conversation will probably make you question many things… but it will also make you feel much less alone. Follow Entre Hermanas and share this episode with that friend who needs to hear it. Discover more at @marthadebaylenetwork.