【なぜ?】いい人ほど損をする、奪われやすい理由／与えても思ったほど返ってこない仕組みがこれ

"I'm actively taking on a lot of different things, but...it's exhausting." That might be because you're being treated like a convenient person. If anything, the nicer you are, the more you lose out. Of course, that doesn't mean "being bad is good," but it just means you should delegate more. Nice people are naturally less demanding. Demanding. Making demands on those who need you leads to strained relationships. I've talked about this in detail, so please take a look. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Sign up for free and receive comforting words at least twice a month] Get a limited-edition article on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. For more details, please see: https://coco-letter.theletter.jp/post... ▼Table of Contents▼ 00:00 Today's Theme 00:42 ① Good people have fewer demands 02:55 ② People who don't give will emerge 05:27 ③ People who take will take more by themselves 07:32 ④ The number of negative roles will increase 09:55 ⑤ Being used as a convenience 12:37 ⑥ You're not as grateful as you think 14:43 ⑦ You start to take things for granted 17:28 Summary: Things I want you to remember ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ -- Exclusive videos that address the concerns of families, parents, and couples. Watch them all + receive daily words of insight YouTube Membership Click here ▶   / @cocoyowa   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New Book: Amazon "I Decided to Live a Little More Earnestly" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I Decided to Stop Being Controlled" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶List of Books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, Instructive Videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●[There's Always One in Your Life] The Psychology of People Who Deny Everything and 3 Ways to Deal with Them / Why Can't You Affirm or Empathize?    • 【身近に1人はいる】何でも否定してくる人の心理と対処法3選／肯定・共感のできない理由とは？   ● [Lurking All Around You] 7 Characteristics of People with Low Mental Immaturity and Aggression Due to Frustration / What Types Are Common Among Family and Friends?    • 【身近にひそむ】不満で攻撃をする、精神年齢の低い・幼い人の特徴7選／家族・友達にも多...   ● Ending Being Looked Down on for Some Reason! "How to Avoid Being Underestimated by Others"    • なぜか舐められる…が終わる!「人に甘く見られないため」の行動・考え方   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related Blog Articles You Should Read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● A Blog to Help Highly Sensitive People and Highly Sensitive People Live Better https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Summary of HSP Diagnostic Tests: "Three Types: Introverted HSP, HSS Type, and HSE Type" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ● Ryota's Lifestyle and Column Blog https://brweb.jp/ ● The Ultimate Solo Technique. When you're struggling with relationships, try living as a "friendly lone wolf." A counselor shares the secret to avoiding making enemies. https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Social Media Accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering Letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle/Long-Laid-Back Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief Profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Qualified as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, he has acquired interpersonal skills from working in manufacturing and teaching for over 15 years. He started his own counseling business, leveraging his experience studying music healing, psychology, and ethics at university. He currently writes and communicates primarily about interpersonal issues. ●Click here for detailed profile https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is dedicated to discussing your concerns from the perspective of a counselor and advisor, with the aim of resolving them. Thank you for your understanding. Please also see the channel description. #Relationships #NicePeople #Psychology