Business Coach #212: David Cory - Name It to Tame It: Emotional Intelligence in Action

In this powerful conversation with David Cory, we unpack the real difference between EI and EQ — and why emotional intelligence is no longer a “soft skill,” but a leadership necessity. We explore vulnerability (and the myth of “big boys don’t cry”), the idea of sharing emotions instead of wearing them, and how to “name it to tame it” rather than stuffing feelings down. David breaks down transformational vs transactional leadership, the true meaning of self-awareness and impulse control, and why your influence ultimately comes down to your self-regard, independence, and presence with empathy. Plus — one absolute gold-dust coaching question you’ll want to steal: “Why won’t you let me help you?” “If your emotional abilities aren’t in hand, if you don’t have self-awareness, if you’re not able to manage your distressing emotions, then no matter how smart you are, you’re not going to get very far.” — Daniel Goleman About David Cory - Founder & Leadership Development Coach David Cory is a leadership development coach, trainer, and consultant recognised for his expertise in applying emotional intelligence to improve individual and organisational performance. Since 1998, David and his team have implemented EI development programs with leaders in some of the world’s most progressive organisations. He has been a keynote speaker at conferences globally, including Harvard Medical School, and is a six-time keynote speaker at the Asia HR Congress (Bahrain, Brunei, Singapore, and Kuala Lumpur twice). Most recently, he delivered a keynote at the World of Tomorrow Leadership Conference in Paradise Island, Maldives. Connect with David: Website: https://www.eitrainingcompany.com  Personal LinkedIn:   /     Company LinkedIn:   / the-emotional-intelligence-training-compan...  

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Loneliness Coach #215: Carrie Sackett: From Me to We – The Power of Connection in Coaching

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Know Before You Tell - The Three-Part Framework Every Communicator Needs

Emotional Intelligence: How Good Leaders Become Great -- UC Davis Executive Leadership Program
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Emotional Intelligence: How Good Leaders Become Great -- UC Davis Executive Leadership Program

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Most Leaders Don't Even Know the Game They're In | Simon Sinek

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Health UnaBASHEd: What Health Systems Are Getting Wrong and Right with Edward Marx

Coach Educator #221: Isaac McBroom - How to Design Better Learning Environments
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Coach Educator #221: Isaac McBroom - How to Design Better Learning Environments

Leadership Coach #219: Jaquie Scammell - Interested vs Committed: The Human Edge in a Fast-Moving...
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Leadership Coach #219: Jaquie Scammell - Interested vs Committed: The Human Edge in a Fast-Moving...

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Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques

Billionaire's WARNING: I'm SELLING. The Crash Is Already Here!
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Billionaire's WARNING: I'm SELLING. The Crash Is Already Here!

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How to Be More Articulate; How to Speak Confidently and Clearly (Audiobook)

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Inspiration for Business Leadership | Full Conversation

Legacy Episode #217: Dr. Jim Loehr - “It’s Not About Making a Living, It’s About Making a Life”
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Legacy Episode #217: Dr. Jim Loehr - “It’s Not About Making a Living, It’s About Making a Life”

The Leadership Skills We’ll Need Most When Everything Is Changing: Me2We 2026
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The Leadership Skills We’ll Need Most When Everything Is Changing: Me2We 2026

Executive Presence Explained: Confidence, Decisiveness & Communication
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Executive Presence Explained: Confidence, Decisiveness & Communication

Think Faster, Talk Smarter with Matt Abrahams
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Think Faster, Talk Smarter with Matt Abrahams

Emotional Intelligence: The #1 ability for leaders | Daniel Goleman
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Emotional Intelligence: The #1 ability for leaders | Daniel Goleman

David Mathis | on honoring God with our bodies through exercise.
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David Mathis | on honoring God with our bodies through exercise.

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What Actually Determines the Success of a Dining Transition

How to Talk Like a Leader | Full Audiobook
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How to Talk Like a Leader | Full Audiobook

Leadership Success: How to Lead with Impact and Influence | John Maxwell
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Leadership Success: How to Lead with Impact and Influence | John Maxwell